Yeah I agree, I'm going to make a few notes over the next 2 weeks and then when we are both off with leave I'm going to sit her down about it.
I wouldn't mind I earn a lot of money but the fact is I pay 70% of the total bills including mortgage as well as my car and it's fuel etc. We are both saving for a wedding and a honeymoon that costs just shy of half of what the total wedding will be.
Definitely going to take onboard what you've said, just odd because she keeps going on about how excited she is about the wedding and I don't really mention it much since it's 18 months away but on the other hand just acting weird and different.
Just talk to him about spending more time with you if you feel like thats lacking but stop worrying about someone whos nothing more than a virtual friend
Ya that’s the thought in my head but it’s so nude to accept. The lease ends in August, so I was thinking I could keep trying to make it work until then and if nothing’s better by then I guess breaking up would be the best option 🙁
Remember the classic question “WHAT DO YOU WANT”
Yeah I agree, I'm going to make a few notes over the next 2 weeks and then when we are both off with leave I'm going to sit her down about it.
I wouldn't mind I earn a lot of money but the fact is I pay 70% of the total bills including mortgage as well as my car and it's fuel etc. We are both saving for a wedding and a honeymoon that costs just shy of half of what the total wedding will be.
Definitely going to take onboard what you've said, just odd because she keeps going on about how excited she is about the wedding and I don't really mention it much since it's 18 months away but on the other hand just acting weird and different.
He made a friend, i see no issues with that
He called her pretty, i see no issues with that
Is he showing signs of potentially cheating?
Is this girl even in your state/country?
Just talk to him about spending more time with you if you feel like thats lacking but stop worrying about someone whos nothing more than a virtual friend
This is his personality, decide now if you want to on-line with this the rest of your life, good luck OP.
I bet this man could literally fuck another dude in front of your eyes and you would think they're just friends
Ya that’s the thought in my head but it’s so nude to accept. The lease ends in August, so I was thinking I could keep trying to make it work until then and if nothing’s better by then I guess breaking up would be the best option 🙁
Relstionships are based on trust. Once trust is gone, the relationship is over.
They may not even do it on purpose.
But their own poisoned spirit in the want of “you need to reconcile, see how the poor thing suffers” is poisonous for you.
And it's poison sown by the abuser.
There is no healthe reconciliation in an unhealthy relationship.
hmmmmmm……..