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Cut out contact and go to the gym. My advice: block her everywhere and/or try to make it as nude as possible for yourself to contact her.
For me, the hardest was to let her go. This helped. And try to make as much with other people like friends or family as possible. Social contact is always good.
Do not torpedo your future over guilt. You should not feel guilty at all for pursuing your own life. That's what adults do and your parents know that. They are taking advantage of you. It's time for you to put your foot down and advocate for yourself and your future. You got this. It may be very hot but it will be worth it.
yeah, you share that kind of problem in a one-to-one conversation, and you ask the friend not to repeat anything (and of course they will, but they'll perhaps be a bit more discreet about it).
Iâd suspected for a few years that he was bi or gay and had asked him and even offered to open the relationship. But he denied it and told me I was misinterpreting things. I had told him many times that we could make it work, I just wanted to be safe emotionally (trust) and physically (use protection).
The kicker? He had come out to his parents as gay before he met me. So they knew all along and I was a beard basically. Cool story, eh? LOL
Ohhh Yeah. For real though they were super old and I forgot I had them cuz I dont care for nudes ??ââď¸ Bf had to have been scrounging through my photos
Not sure why her having a job or not matters for your relationship anyway. But again, if youâre having issues in a few months long relationship then itâs not a good fit. Move on.
Other people who are not anxiously attached MAY be able to make a relationship with a person who is insensitive to their partnerâs needs.
You canât, and it is self destructive for you to stay with someone you donât trust for good reasons. This will only make you more anxious. Go get the therapy!!!! Be single rather than staying, because you are likely to get more and more invested.
Okay. Cool. Well, this seems a pretty good excuse. It's a concern you still seem to insist on 'trying to make this work' and just making this process as absolutely torturous as possible but really it all comes back to the reality that you knew it wasn't working, that you are both utterly toxic, and now this is just a bombshell that makes it even less likely it could ever be healthy.
So break up for good for good.
I'm an extremely jealous person
You seem pretty casual about that. I think you need to reflect on your own personality here. Especially as despite being so jealous it still never actually results in you ending it. Really all you do is get upset, become toxic, etc. You need to get better at regulating your emotions so that you can make actually sensible choices instead of just this cycle over and over again.
I hate that i see posts like this so often đ wtf is wrong with people. Stay strong, OP. Take your time, and remember it's better late than never that you found out. Now you can stop wasting your time and effort on this piece of shit and start your healing journey. ?
You couldâve asked before assuming⌠and why would you assume that it had been 1 day? Kinda silly if you ask me. Why would anyone post asking for advice if they had been trying something for 1 day? Common sense.
Anyways, I added the 6 months trial detail now bc it is important to the narrative as you have so kindly pointed outâŚ
I doubt this is about video games. Probably she feels something she can't quite put into words. Which sucks because mind readers are so naked to find these days.
Agree. Your boyfriend is a âtree chopper.â He canât help but shut down anything youâre excited about. I would have a conversation with him about how itâs rude to say âyuckâ to other peopleâs âyum.â Express to him that itâs important your partner trust your judgment and treat you as an intellectual equal. Itâs possible he may hear you and make an effort to improve. But if he comes back at you with rhetoric about how your (very valid) feelings are âwrongâ, you may need to end this relationship.
Youâre not exhibiting toxic positivity. He either doesnât know what that term means or is deliberately misconstruing the idea to manipulate you.
-Make a group activity and invite her to be part of it (that way it relieves the pressure of going from only gazes to asking her for a date and hanging with her alone for a whole date when youâre both shy)
-ask her to help you with stuff (homework, prep for something else you have coming up and sheâs good at etc)
-if you want to directly ask her for a date go for it. Just make sure sheâs single first then however you do it sheâll probably say yes she already clearly likes you.
Foster children are extremely vulnerable to sexual abuse, and sadly there are a lot of cases of them being abused by the family who fosters them. Please OP, if she is a minor, report this to child services.
Hm, you know, marriage does not need ti be that big of a deal. Law varies between countries, but I assume you can divorce someone in India, and you can make some legal agreements to make sure you won't suffer that much should it come to that. Perhaps marry her in order to be together, and divorce her if it fails?
Cut out contact and go to the gym. My advice: block her everywhere and/or try to make it as nude as possible for yourself to contact her.
For me, the hardest was to let her go. This helped. And try to make as much with other people like friends or family as possible. Social contact is always good.
Do not torpedo your future over guilt. You should not feel guilty at all for pursuing your own life. That's what adults do and your parents know that. They are taking advantage of you. It's time for you to put your foot down and advocate for yourself and your future. You got this. It may be very hot but it will be worth it.
yeah, you share that kind of problem in a one-to-one conversation, and you ask the friend not to repeat anything (and of course they will, but they'll perhaps be a bit more discreet about it).
Yeah. Trash is taking itself out. Now he can be insecure all by his lonesome.
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If youâre not in a relationship then you can even break up because whatâs there to break up?
Your situationship (WTF) is a fuck buddy/friend with benefits. Just end it. Tell him youâre going to date another guy and you need to end it.
Not exactly.
Iâd suspected for a few years that he was bi or gay and had asked him and even offered to open the relationship. But he denied it and told me I was misinterpreting things. I had told him many times that we could make it work, I just wanted to be safe emotionally (trust) and physically (use protection).
The kicker? He had come out to his parents as gay before he met me. So they knew all along and I was a beard basically. Cool story, eh? LOL
Exactly this.
Why ask for advise and then don't accept when outsiders are telling you how this looks like?
Are you really that set up on marrying anyone ?
Ohhh Yeah. For real though they were super old and I forgot I had them cuz I dont care for nudes ??ââď¸ Bf had to have been scrounging through my photos
Getting the popcorn out for this train wreck. I say leave him and work on yourself.
Nope.
She deflected but thatâs not abusive.
Not sure why her having a job or not matters for your relationship anyway. But again, if youâre having issues in a few months long relationship then itâs not a good fit. Move on.
You found the crazy one….. do yourself a favor and get rid of her.
Other people who are not anxiously attached MAY be able to make a relationship with a person who is insensitive to their partnerâs needs.
You canât, and it is self destructive for you to stay with someone you donât trust for good reasons. This will only make you more anxious. Go get the therapy!!!! Be single rather than staying, because you are likely to get more and more invested.
Now you're just making shit up.
If you're not happy and able to communicate past a tiny mistake like this, maybe you don't need to be together. Only you truly know the answer.
Imo that was at best unwarranted, and at worst passive aggressive. A red flag for sure, but not a massive one, imo. Miscommunications happen.
We were already planning to break up for good.
Okay. Cool. Well, this seems a pretty good excuse. It's a concern you still seem to insist on 'trying to make this work' and just making this process as absolutely torturous as possible but really it all comes back to the reality that you knew it wasn't working, that you are both utterly toxic, and now this is just a bombshell that makes it even less likely it could ever be healthy.
So break up for good for good.
I'm an extremely jealous person
You seem pretty casual about that. I think you need to reflect on your own personality here. Especially as despite being so jealous it still never actually results in you ending it. Really all you do is get upset, become toxic, etc. You need to get better at regulating your emotions so that you can make actually sensible choices instead of just this cycle over and over again.
I hate that i see posts like this so often đ wtf is wrong with people. Stay strong, OP. Take your time, and remember it's better late than never that you found out. Now you can stop wasting your time and effort on this piece of shit and start your healing journey. ?
I knew that was her messaging me!
Sounds like a gift from a man who doesnât understand ethnic hair, but means well.
You couldâve asked before assuming⌠and why would you assume that it had been 1 day? Kinda silly if you ask me. Why would anyone post asking for advice if they had been trying something for 1 day? Common sense.
Anyways, I added the 6 months trial detail now bc it is important to the narrative as you have so kindly pointed outâŚ
YOUâRE LYING ?? ainât no WAY heâs only taken you out twice wOW
(âYouâre lyingâ is just an expression btw. Iâm just taken aback by how ridiculous this all is)
Girl DUMP him.
I doubt this is about video games. Probably she feels something she can't quite put into words. Which sucks because mind readers are so naked to find these days.
Agree. Your boyfriend is a âtree chopper.â He canât help but shut down anything youâre excited about. I would have a conversation with him about how itâs rude to say âyuckâ to other peopleâs âyum.â Express to him that itâs important your partner trust your judgment and treat you as an intellectual equal. Itâs possible he may hear you and make an effort to improve. But if he comes back at you with rhetoric about how your (very valid) feelings are âwrongâ, you may need to end this relationship.
Youâre not exhibiting toxic positivity. He either doesnât know what that term means or is deliberately misconstruing the idea to manipulate you.
Sending sooooooooo much love and good luck!
Lots of things you could do here:
-Make a group activity and invite her to be part of it (that way it relieves the pressure of going from only gazes to asking her for a date and hanging with her alone for a whole date when youâre both shy)
-ask her to help you with stuff (homework, prep for something else you have coming up and sheâs good at etc)
-if you want to directly ask her for a date go for it. Just make sure sheâs single first then however you do it sheâll probably say yes she already clearly likes you.
Foster children are extremely vulnerable to sexual abuse, and sadly there are a lot of cases of them being abused by the family who fosters them. Please OP, if she is a minor, report this to child services.
After which point you will realize this 36 year old man dating a 23 year old wasnât that great a catch after all.
Hm, you know, marriage does not need ti be that big of a deal. Law varies between countries, but I assume you can divorce someone in India, and you can make some legal agreements to make sure you won't suffer that much should it come to that. Perhaps marry her in order to be together, and divorce her if it fails?