âYour obsession with a relationship that was in the past has made me realise that you do not trust me and probably never will. Everyone has baggage and past relationships that we canât change anything about, but you have trust issues and insecurities you can actually work on. I will not be sharing bank statements with you, if that means you want to break up, so be it.â
You can also change the last line to youâre just breaking up with her because you want to be with someone who trusts you and doesnât make these insane demands. (This option has my vote)
Iâm telling you that youâre showing warning signs of becoming a legitimate, television show on A&E, intervention from local government hoarder.
Keeping things like silica gel packets âjust in caseâ set off all kinds of alarms for me. Youâre not going to like this statement and youâre going to have what you think are legitimate reasons to stash sugar packets and silica and so on.
Memories of pets are pictures and paw prints.
Iâm begging you in a totally non judgmental way and entirely out of concern for you – get therapy. These behaviors absolutely destroy relationships of all kinds as they escalate. Iâve worked with them as a pastor and itâs heartbreaking.
You should be direct and ask her if she is fully satisfied. I doubt your size is an issue, but that doesn't mean she won't enjoy other things too. It sounds like y'all already do, but the best thing you can do is be open and honest about whether what y'all are doing is satisfying or if she needs other approaches–cumming by penetration is not very common for most women I believe, which likely has little to do with size. Hence the need to just communicate to make sure you are doing all the things needed to satisfy each other, and whether you're big or small, I doubt it'll prevent y'all from making it work.
If he met the child; Iâd be different too, but he didnât.
âYour obsession with a relationship that was in the past has made me realise that you do not trust me and probably never will. Everyone has baggage and past relationships that we canât change anything about, but you have trust issues and insecurities you can actually work on. I will not be sharing bank statements with you, if that means you want to break up, so be it.â
You can also change the last line to youâre just breaking up with her because you want to be with someone who trusts you and doesnât make these insane demands. (This option has my vote)
Iâm not telling you that youâre a hoarder.
Iâm telling you that youâre showing warning signs of becoming a legitimate, television show on A&E, intervention from local government hoarder.
Keeping things like silica gel packets âjust in caseâ set off all kinds of alarms for me. Youâre not going to like this statement and youâre going to have what you think are legitimate reasons to stash sugar packets and silica and so on.
Memories of pets are pictures and paw prints.
Iâm begging you in a totally non judgmental way and entirely out of concern for you – get therapy. These behaviors absolutely destroy relationships of all kinds as they escalate. Iâve worked with them as a pastor and itâs heartbreaking.
Is this the bf who was diagnosed as a covert narcissist?
You should be direct and ask her if she is fully satisfied. I doubt your size is an issue, but that doesn't mean she won't enjoy other things too. It sounds like y'all already do, but the best thing you can do is be open and honest about whether what y'all are doing is satisfying or if she needs other approaches–cumming by penetration is not very common for most women I believe, which likely has little to do with size. Hence the need to just communicate to make sure you are doing all the things needed to satisfy each other, and whether you're big or small, I doubt it'll prevent y'all from making it work.