I know when I have a completely normal conversation with someone over text I too always use a nom de plume for them and purge all records of the conversation at regular intervals.
That's sarcasm, as the op clearly doesn't catch hints, signs, red flags or advice well.
First, depending on where he lives, $24M for the next 60 years isn’t nearly as much money as you think it is. That averages to $400K/year. A significant portion needs to be allocated to future medical needs in old age. And then there is the cost of children, if OP wants kids. And then there is the question of whether to leave some money to them.
Second, the money is in the market, which means it is subject to decrease. I know plenty of people with sizable retirement accounts in 2006 who lost almost all of it by 2009.
You can lose that money way quicker than you think. Plenty of athletes have.
So I was raped when I was 14 and then ended up in a abusive relationship until I was 18. I am now 26F, been through therapy and am on my healing journey.
YOU have alot of build up stored trauma still in YOU . It doesn't just go away it stays & NEEDS to be worked through . Abit of therapy will NOT be the end of it . It requires ON -going endless re-training of your mind again .
Why would that even matter? Anyone who cares that much has a stick so far up their own ass that they aren’t worth dealing with anyway
I know when I have a completely normal conversation with someone over text I too always use a nom de plume for them and purge all records of the conversation at regular intervals.
That's sarcasm, as the op clearly doesn't catch hints, signs, red flags or advice well.
First, depending on where he lives, $24M for the next 60 years isn’t nearly as much money as you think it is. That averages to $400K/year. A significant portion needs to be allocated to future medical needs in old age. And then there is the cost of children, if OP wants kids. And then there is the question of whether to leave some money to them.
Second, the money is in the market, which means it is subject to decrease. I know plenty of people with sizable retirement accounts in 2006 who lost almost all of it by 2009.
You can lose that money way quicker than you think. Plenty of athletes have.
Report it to your lawyer and file a police report in case you need it in court stay safe
Let him leave. Nobody “needs” threesomes
So I was raped when I was 14 and then ended up in a abusive relationship until I was 18. I am now 26F, been through therapy and am on my healing journey.
YOU have alot of build up stored trauma still in YOU . It doesn't just go away it stays & NEEDS to be worked through . Abit of therapy will NOT be the end of it . It requires ON -going endless re-training of your mind again .
I am trying to understand if letting him now it is something i should do. ?