Your ex was pissed because the only thing that makes you happy is when you look sexy to yourself? If that's true and it is the only thing that makes you happy then why are you looking for a relationship? Do you want a more casual relationship? Then you should clear it before entering one I think
He doesn’t love you, he loves the idea of a perky 21 year old who worships his older man wisdom when high. You are young and can recover from your blind trust in him.
It happened two years ago according to some comment I saw. But may be the woman has children from a previous marriage. Idk. He does seem to hide the affair and even justified it in some comments.
That's exactly what I think, but he manipulates me in a way that makes me wonder if what I'm thinking is actually right and I'm the one in the wrong side?
In the long run this will all be behind you and you won't feel the same.
Thank the time you had with him. Find the lesson. What did you learn out of this relationship? What did you dislike or even hate? What did you like? You don't have to answer those now, take the time to heal and keep moving forward. You're allowed to feel how you feel.
Being around people who dislike you for whatever reason is not worth your sanity. Especially someone else's family. It just creates problems. He is what you needed for the time being. No one says you have to be with anyone. Make yourself happy and if someone special comes along the way then great. Healing yourself is the most important thing right now for you.
Oh I don’t know if your fiancé would but I would lol
Your ex was pissed because the only thing that makes you happy is when you look sexy to yourself? If that's true and it is the only thing that makes you happy then why are you looking for a relationship? Do you want a more casual relationship? Then you should clear it before entering one I think
He doesn’t love you, he loves the idea of a perky 21 year old who worships his older man wisdom when high. You are young and can recover from your blind trust in him.
It happened two years ago according to some comment I saw. But may be the woman has children from a previous marriage. Idk. He does seem to hide the affair and even justified it in some comments.
That's exactly what I think, but he manipulates me in a way that makes me wonder if what I'm thinking is actually right and I'm the one in the wrong side?
I don’t think you have any choice but to tell your husband the truth, and I definitely agree with you that therapy is a great idea
In the long run this will all be behind you and you won't feel the same.
Thank the time you had with him. Find the lesson. What did you learn out of this relationship? What did you dislike or even hate? What did you like? You don't have to answer those now, take the time to heal and keep moving forward. You're allowed to feel how you feel.
Being around people who dislike you for whatever reason is not worth your sanity. Especially someone else's family. It just creates problems. He is what you needed for the time being. No one says you have to be with anyone. Make yourself happy and if someone special comes along the way then great. Healing yourself is the most important thing right now for you.