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Yeah i had one boyfriend that would constantly ask “am I hurting you? You look like I’m hurting you. I’m gonna stop” and it was genuinely just like bracing lol
Sorry OP I think this is one of those 'break up' situations. Almost none of the factors that might suggest you should try to save the relationship are present – of all of her concerns you appear not be be a factor, at all. It is never appropriate to continue to have contact with your affair partner. She places having her friend who she cheated with higher then you, your relationship, and your feelings.
All abusers are very loving in the beginning. They shower you with affection and gifts to lower your defenses and make you relax. Then they make you marry them or get you with child and that’s when the trap snaps and their whole demeanor changes. That’s the strategy. Don’t be fooled.
Of course not, redemption is possible. If you see the fruit of positive change in his actions and habits over his words. You don’t have to decide right away, give yourself lots of time to feel things out, if you feel pressured I would back away a little. You have every right take your time to be sure first. Feeling peace about a situation before making a decision is important.
Yeah i had one boyfriend that would constantly ask “am I hurting you? You look like I’m hurting you. I’m gonna stop” and it was genuinely just like bracing lol
Sorry OP I think this is one of those 'break up' situations. Almost none of the factors that might suggest you should try to save the relationship are present – of all of her concerns you appear not be be a factor, at all. It is never appropriate to continue to have contact with your affair partner. She places having her friend who she cheated with higher then you, your relationship, and your feelings.
She has to want you too for this to work, but she's clearly rejected you. Waiting on her will just make you resentful, I say move on.
There's nothing to wait for.
All abusers are very loving in the beginning. They shower you with affection and gifts to lower your defenses and make you relax. Then they make you marry them or get you with child and that’s when the trap snaps and their whole demeanor changes. That’s the strategy. Don’t be fooled.
At 16 I didn’t realise that, it’s only now stepping away from the situation and talking to people I can understand how bad it is
Of course not, redemption is possible. If you see the fruit of positive change in his actions and habits over his words. You don’t have to decide right away, give yourself lots of time to feel things out, if you feel pressured I would back away a little. You have every right take your time to be sure first. Feeling peace about a situation before making a decision is important.