2 weeks every so often isn't too bad but I guess it does depend on the person involved. You could try to map out how often you do want to be intimate and he himself and see if you guys can find an overlap, but I also understand that the spontaneousness of it can be part of the fun. It doesnt have to be scheduled or planned but knowing yourself have over you want sex might help (if you arent totally sure right now that is)
If I was given a dollar for every story I've read about threesomes ruining relationships, I'd be a millionaire.
You literally fucked around and found out.
Every time your boyfriend looks at you now, he is going to see the image of some other dude taking you from behind.
You're probably both going to need couples counselling so you might want to discuss this with your boyfriend.
Your chances of salvaging this relationship are going to be determined by continuous communication with each other, and over time he will hopefully heal.
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2 weeks every so often isn't too bad but I guess it does depend on the person involved. You could try to map out how often you do want to be intimate and he himself and see if you guys can find an overlap, but I also understand that the spontaneousness of it can be part of the fun. It doesnt have to be scheduled or planned but knowing yourself have over you want sex might help (if you arent totally sure right now that is)
If I was given a dollar for every story I've read about threesomes ruining relationships, I'd be a millionaire.
You literally fucked around and found out.
Every time your boyfriend looks at you now, he is going to see the image of some other dude taking you from behind.
You're probably both going to need couples counselling so you might want to discuss this with your boyfriend.
Your chances of salvaging this relationship are going to be determined by continuous communication with each other, and over time he will hopefully heal.