Leaving you with that level of vulnerability and not taking into account all the time you’ve already dedicated to his family is terrible. I think you’re right about him being arrogant and emotionally immature. He’s 31, few chances that this will ever change.
Cut your losses and be grateful that it took just one trip to find out who he was.
I don’t know the first 6 months we’re typical honey moon feelings and then i lost my brother so i spent a year grieving . And now here we are i thought it would get better cuz he kept telling me he would go to therapy . Life got hectic and time just kept going and now I’m sitting here like damn .
I honestly don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer to this. Your feelings are valid and you’ve every right to be upset. If he knows you and knows you’re the sort of person to take this seriously, then that’s a breach of trust and a mistake on his behalf.
Snooping is one thing, going out of his way to send your private photos to himself is another (although he apparently stopped himself from doing that). Some people would potentially find that flattering, others like yourself would feel totally violated. It’s honestly your call on how to proceed, just go with your gut.
Why would you ask your date to send your friend a gift?? That’s wild.
Also it’s pretty clear your girl friend likes you, and based off of you asking your date to give your girl friend a gift, and her spending the night, honestly it sounds like you might reciprocate the feelings.
I think your date was right to leave the situation. I wouldn’t put up with that either.
FYI OP has a new girlfriend
What a sh!tbag
Leaving you with that level of vulnerability and not taking into account all the time you’ve already dedicated to his family is terrible. I think you’re right about him being arrogant and emotionally immature. He’s 31, few chances that this will ever change.
Cut your losses and be grateful that it took just one trip to find out who he was.
Deff shower before hand and use a PH balanced soap ( vagacil?) Also deff give yourself a trim and keep the bush maintained.
I'm one to shave and have a nude kitty ( my personal preference)
Give it another try! It's all new and fun to explore and experiment. Don't let a first time get ya down.
I don’t know the first 6 months we’re typical honey moon feelings and then i lost my brother so i spent a year grieving . And now here we are i thought it would get better cuz he kept telling me he would go to therapy . Life got hectic and time just kept going and now I’m sitting here like damn .
I honestly don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer to this. Your feelings are valid and you’ve every right to be upset. If he knows you and knows you’re the sort of person to take this seriously, then that’s a breach of trust and a mistake on his behalf.
Snooping is one thing, going out of his way to send your private photos to himself is another (although he apparently stopped himself from doing that). Some people would potentially find that flattering, others like yourself would feel totally violated. It’s honestly your call on how to proceed, just go with your gut.
What are you smoking
OP ain't learning anything , what you expect him to watch her getting smashed by other guys and just sitting with a notebook and pen.
If he approves this his relationship breaks , he now hates her for doing it and himself for allowing it.
He didn't really care for this girl then great swing away , damn the consequences but if he does there are other things to try
Thank you for the advice and ? basically yeah. I’ve known him for a couple of months. We started discussing things and marriage came up.
Why would you ask your date to send your friend a gift?? That’s wild.
Also it’s pretty clear your girl friend likes you, and based off of you asking your date to give your girl friend a gift, and her spending the night, honestly it sounds like you might reciprocate the feelings.
I think your date was right to leave the situation. I wouldn’t put up with that either.