Well this I shitty behaviour on her part, but be aware that a gf/wife's hypothetical question will always stay in her mind so it truly never is hypothetical, be careful what you say.
Stop solving his problems for him. Let him whine as long as youre sure he wont get physical. Ignore attempts by him to besmirch your character. He survived over 30 years without your help, he’ll be fine. Also, theres a reason a 32 yr old went for a 22 yr old. Its so she’ll put up with shit like this coz shes too naive to know any better.
Well this I shitty behaviour on her part, but be aware that a gf/wife's hypothetical question will always stay in her mind so it truly never is hypothetical, be careful what you say.
you need therapy because you keep picking wrong people.
Stop solving his problems for him. Let him whine as long as youre sure he wont get physical. Ignore attempts by him to besmirch your character. He survived over 30 years without your help, he’ll be fine. Also, theres a reason a 32 yr old went for a 22 yr old. Its so she’ll put up with shit like this coz shes too naive to know any better.