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I agree you should forgive him. It will be beneficial for you in the long run. That doesn’t mean you forget what he did to you or that you become friends or get back into any kind of relationship with him if you don’t want to. I would advise you to have very little contact if any at all with him. You aren’t responsible for anything he does. He is obviously mentally not well
Yeah, he told me that he doesn't know if this means that he isn't in the right headspace, but he knows that he just has a lot going on rn. He does feel like his head is all over the place.
This. I’ve had a couple exes get really upset when I’d flinch when they touched me. If any physical contact becomes the cue for “let’s screw,” it’s demoralizing. If I’m not at that very moment DTF then go away, I’m not some chew toy for use when he’s bored or horny. Same with conversation or bringing flowers. If you’re only “nice” to when prompted by an erection or guilt, my reflex is going to be “I’m not in the mood” or “what did you do this time?”
I see people in comments are all saying he is right, I kind of disagree. He has a point, you shouldn't be hanging out with your friends who ALL shut you out and made you feel like shit and reported you for mental health stuff. They purposely made you feel bad. I had my fair share of friend groups IRL I cut off because they hurt or deceived me in ways I could not get past. It's hot, but necessary.
But I don't think it's fair of your BF to threaten breaking up over this. It's none of his business as they're your friends and you choose who you hang out with. He could be more supportive in certain ways, talk to you about this or suggest alternatives such as you and him going on holiday together instead of you with them. I understand in extreme cases people propose an ultimatum. But this type of stuff is not that extreme whatsoever.
So I think both you and your BF are wrong. He is wrong to propose such an extreme ultimatum over something like this. And you're wrong hanging out with friends who fucked up your mental health and play mind games with you.
Especially when she’s been distanced from the family for being in a queer relationship, because it goes against most of the church’s teachings and beliefs.
You say she’s welcome, but yet you are not talking about her in any way that would be seen as welcoming or understanding of her side or view.
I agree you should forgive him. It will be beneficial for you in the long run. That doesn’t mean you forget what he did to you or that you become friends or get back into any kind of relationship with him if you don’t want to. I would advise you to have very little contact if any at all with him. You aren’t responsible for anything he does. He is obviously mentally not well
Yeah, he told me that he doesn't know if this means that he isn't in the right headspace, but he knows that he just has a lot going on rn. He does feel like his head is all over the place.
This. I’ve had a couple exes get really upset when I’d flinch when they touched me. If any physical contact becomes the cue for “let’s screw,” it’s demoralizing. If I’m not at that very moment DTF then go away, I’m not some chew toy for use when he’s bored or horny. Same with conversation or bringing flowers. If you’re only “nice” to when prompted by an erection or guilt, my reflex is going to be “I’m not in the mood” or “what did you do this time?”
I see people in comments are all saying he is right, I kind of disagree. He has a point, you shouldn't be hanging out with your friends who ALL shut you out and made you feel like shit and reported you for mental health stuff. They purposely made you feel bad. I had my fair share of friend groups IRL I cut off because they hurt or deceived me in ways I could not get past. It's hot, but necessary.
But I don't think it's fair of your BF to threaten breaking up over this. It's none of his business as they're your friends and you choose who you hang out with. He could be more supportive in certain ways, talk to you about this or suggest alternatives such as you and him going on holiday together instead of you with them. I understand in extreme cases people propose an ultimatum. But this type of stuff is not that extreme whatsoever.
So I think both you and your BF are wrong. He is wrong to propose such an extreme ultimatum over something like this. And you're wrong hanging out with friends who fucked up your mental health and play mind games with you.
You claim you don’t judge her, but yet your post is full of judgement.
You call her fiancée, her “friend from homecoming”, and are confused why she would move in with her “friend”, when that’s her girlfriend? You don’t seem supportive of her relationship when you write about her, why do you expect her to be supportive of yours?
Especially when she’s been distanced from the family for being in a queer relationship, because it goes against most of the church’s teachings and beliefs.
You say she’s welcome, but yet you are not talking about her in any way that would be seen as welcoming or understanding of her side or view.