if we go to therapy, and I already told my therapist this, he is going to say things about me in such a way as to embarass me. We can't have company over or to go meet with friends, because always does this. It is predictable. I go to events alone for this reason. He also can never be told he does anything wrong
Because it means OP is leaving out an important detail.
Either that this is her personality and they regularly have sex, or that they're not having sex at all and his constant rejections of her are making her feel like he doesn't want her and isn't interested in her anymore.
Emotional intelligence out the window, I see. I admit, your responses are the only ones that had depth, but I still fail to see you educating this young man to do different instead of saying that heβs a piece of shif.
OP, you might have to give him a chance to realize what he is taking for granted.
He's one of those guys who is just fine with things how they are; nice girlfriend doing everything to make things nice and waiting politely for Mr. uncertain to make up his mind.
I proposed to my wife after 6 months; we've been together for 20 years.
Some women will face it head on, saying I've given you almost 5 years of my life, if you don't love me like crazy and want to be with me what am I wasting my time for? Bye.
I would suggest avoiding trying to talk him into it, or arguing – he's going to act all resentful and make as if you're pressuring him. Just decide for yourself and act.
Your guts can be vague, sometimes but they Never lie.
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if we go to therapy, and I already told my therapist this, he is going to say things about me in such a way as to embarass me. We can't have company over or to go meet with friends, because always does this. It is predictable. I go to events alone for this reason. He also can never be told he does anything wrong
Because it means OP is leaving out an important detail.
Either that this is her personality and they regularly have sex, or that they're not having sex at all and his constant rejections of her are making her feel like he doesn't want her and isn't interested in her anymore.
Emotional intelligence out the window, I see. I admit, your responses are the only ones that had depth, but I still fail to see you educating this young man to do different instead of saying that heβs a piece of shif.
OP, you might have to give him a chance to realize what he is taking for granted.
He's one of those guys who is just fine with things how they are; nice girlfriend doing everything to make things nice and waiting politely for Mr. uncertain to make up his mind.
I proposed to my wife after 6 months; we've been together for 20 years.
Some women will face it head on, saying I've given you almost 5 years of my life, if you don't love me like crazy and want to be with me what am I wasting my time for? Bye.
I would suggest avoiding trying to talk him into it, or arguing – he's going to act all resentful and make as if you're pressuring him. Just decide for yourself and act.