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Why does he jump right to “you’re just doing it for attention/compliments” instead of just shutting the fuck up? What was the goal of that comment? To make you feel bad about providing meals for your grieving friend? To put your cooking down as something people don’t actually “need” but that you’re cooking for them for “selfish” reasons? To guilt you into not spending a whole day cooking and instead doing things for his selfish ass?
You did a nice thing for a friend. End of story. Does it feel good when someone reciprocates the nice gesture with a compliment? OF COURSE IT DOES! You would have to be a psycho to not get enjoyment out of that. You don’t have to get ZERO benefit from something for it to still be altruistic. You’re not doing it FOR the compliments, you’re doing it because it’s your love language and you enjoy using your skills to provide meals for others.
Many people don’t even like cooking and by offering your services, that you are more than happy to offer, it takes the burden off of others and everybody wins. How could your boyfriend possibly have an issue with you getting enjoyment out of it? He sucks for making you feel bad about this and doubt your motivations. Pretty shitty that he sees you enjoying it and wants to take you down a couple pegs to get to his level because it doesn’t have much to offer.
It may help a lot to tell him how you're feeling. It may help if he really tries to fix some of the things that bother you the most (and it may be kind of fair to give him that chance). And if he reacts badly – then it may help you make the decision to move on.
Another thing that may help is to take back a little more of your own independence, as you may be able to live! together (and even still love each other) without spending so much time together. There's a tendency for couples to talk before dinner – and then eat together – and then to sit in front of the same TV, or at least in the same room for multiple hours each evening. Where longer term relationship seem to work better if you each have something of your own domain within your home – or if it's a really small place than having a bedroom with a door, and a comfortable chair to hang out in will make it easier to be home together – but not always together.
And of course your own independence also means having you each do some things on your own during the course of a week. So both partners get some away time and some home alone time.
It's sounds like you might do better if you can generally feel less trapped in your situation. So it may also help to remember that by staying another month – or even another year, isn't the same as staying there for the rest of your life.
He's lying. You will receive emails from time to time about an inactive account. Actual tinder notifications are recommendations/responses/communications from an active tinder account.
So infer from that what you will. Lying about it though does infer quite a lot.
This is simply infatuation and lust mixed with a lot of attraction. But that is what it sounds like to me, maybe it is love at first sight I'm no expert. But she let you down very clearly albeit condescendingly if you ask me. I would think someone I just met telling me they did not wanna break my heart pretty audacious. Or maybe she is self aware that she lacks the capacity for anything healthy or stable rn and was being honest. So I believe you need to let this go and not chase her around social media. If she is interested in chatting you up I'm sure she can text you just as easily.
Wife material is a misogynistic term. How does her doing this make her not wife material 10 years from now? A man who judges women surely isn't husband material.
Why does he jump right to “you’re just doing it for attention/compliments” instead of just shutting the fuck up? What was the goal of that comment? To make you feel bad about providing meals for your grieving friend? To put your cooking down as something people don’t actually “need” but that you’re cooking for them for “selfish” reasons? To guilt you into not spending a whole day cooking and instead doing things for his selfish ass?
You did a nice thing for a friend. End of story. Does it feel good when someone reciprocates the nice gesture with a compliment? OF COURSE IT DOES! You would have to be a psycho to not get enjoyment out of that. You don’t have to get ZERO benefit from something for it to still be altruistic. You’re not doing it FOR the compliments, you’re doing it because it’s your love language and you enjoy using your skills to provide meals for others.
Many people don’t even like cooking and by offering your services, that you are more than happy to offer, it takes the burden off of others and everybody wins. How could your boyfriend possibly have an issue with you getting enjoyment out of it? He sucks for making you feel bad about this and doubt your motivations. Pretty shitty that he sees you enjoying it and wants to take you down a couple pegs to get to his level because it doesn’t have much to offer.
It may help a lot to tell him how you're feeling. It may help if he really tries to fix some of the things that bother you the most (and it may be kind of fair to give him that chance). And if he reacts badly – then it may help you make the decision to move on.
Another thing that may help is to take back a little more of your own independence, as you may be able to live! together (and even still love each other) without spending so much time together. There's a tendency for couples to talk before dinner – and then eat together – and then to sit in front of the same TV, or at least in the same room for multiple hours each evening. Where longer term relationship seem to work better if you each have something of your own domain within your home – or if it's a really small place than having a bedroom with a door, and a comfortable chair to hang out in will make it easier to be home together – but not always together.
And of course your own independence also means having you each do some things on your own during the course of a week. So both partners get some away time and some home alone time.
It's sounds like you might do better if you can generally feel less trapped in your situation. So it may also help to remember that by staying another month – or even another year, isn't the same as staying there for the rest of your life.
Yeah, opposite schedules aswell will really screw those things up.
Could you both get on the same schedule at work ? Things would improve a lot if you're sleepcycles were mostly aligned.
Now you wake up fresh and feeling for it and he just gets home and wants to sleep.
He's lying. You will receive emails from time to time about an inactive account. Actual tinder notifications are recommendations/responses/communications from an active tinder account.
So infer from that what you will. Lying about it though does infer quite a lot.
This is simply infatuation and lust mixed with a lot of attraction. But that is what it sounds like to me, maybe it is love at first sight I'm no expert. But she let you down very clearly albeit condescendingly if you ask me. I would think someone I just met telling me they did not wanna break my heart pretty audacious. Or maybe she is self aware that she lacks the capacity for anything healthy or stable rn and was being honest. So I believe you need to let this go and not chase her around social media. If she is interested in chatting you up I'm sure she can text you just as easily.
Wife material is a misogynistic term. How does her doing this make her not wife material 10 years from now? A man who judges women surely isn't husband material.