Sounds like you need professional help to deal with your insecurities, so you don’t repeat this behaviour in your next relationship. Or even this one if by some chance she agrees to try again. But you should prepare yourself that it won’t happen. But either way, get yourself therapy. Good luck.
Your 30 yo boyfriend sounds incredibly needy and exhausting. There is no world in which his behavior is normal or healthy, and you really need to address this with him. Put boundaries down and agree on acceptable timing to check in for safety sake, but he needs to understand that when you are out with friends, it is to spend time with your friends, NOT to have to deal with texts and calls from him every few minutes. That's ridiculous.
He seems to be quite insecure and controlling, even though you've been together a relatively short period of time. Please watch out for further red flags, because these are some very worryingly immature behaviors.
Sounds like you need professional help to deal with your insecurities, so you don’t repeat this behaviour in your next relationship. Or even this one if by some chance she agrees to try again. But you should prepare yourself that it won’t happen. But either way, get yourself therapy. Good luck.
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This man could let you die during a serious asthma attack. Pick a better one.
Your 30 yo boyfriend sounds incredibly needy and exhausting. There is no world in which his behavior is normal or healthy, and you really need to address this with him. Put boundaries down and agree on acceptable timing to check in for safety sake, but he needs to understand that when you are out with friends, it is to spend time with your friends, NOT to have to deal with texts and calls from him every few minutes. That's ridiculous.
He seems to be quite insecure and controlling, even though you've been together a relatively short period of time. Please watch out for further red flags, because these are some very worryingly immature behaviors.
Lol. What a prat.