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No, that's all you and the insecurities that you clearly, desperately need therapy for.
Hes not as affectionate anymore, hes stopped assisting me with my social media things.
Yeah, because you've been treating him like crap, over and over again.
He says hes still loves me, but hes just so unsure and hurting now.
Yeah, because you keep hurting him, which makes him feel unsure if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
I apologized so much but he just cant let go. He says that what does an apology matter if it just keeps happening.
And do you have an answer for that? If you keep doing the same thing, is he supposed to just let it go because you say sorry afterward? After you apologize, you're supposed to do better, not just keep doing the same hurtful shit.
I guess I was right on him being vengeful.
No, he's not vengeful, you're just treating him badly.
I dont know what to do. Idk how I can I get him back to how he used to be.
Get therapy. Treat him better – consistently, for years.
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Leave.
If you act like this it's no wonder she doesn't want kids with you.
Two wrongs don't make a right.
Lmao right? That's called a fucking relationship.
You married an abusive pile of shit
I dont know what to do.
Stop abusing your boyfriend.
Heβs ruining out relationship.
No, that's all you and the insecurities that you clearly, desperately need therapy for.
Hes not as affectionate anymore, hes stopped assisting me with my social media things.
Yeah, because you've been treating him like crap, over and over again.
He says hes still loves me, but hes just so unsure and hurting now.
Yeah, because you keep hurting him, which makes him feel unsure if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
I apologized so much but he just cant let go. He says that what does an apology matter if it just keeps happening.
And do you have an answer for that? If you keep doing the same thing, is he supposed to just let it go because you say sorry afterward? After you apologize, you're supposed to do better, not just keep doing the same hurtful shit.
I guess I was right on him being vengeful.
No, he's not vengeful, you're just treating him badly.
I dont know what to do. Idk how I can I get him back to how he used to be.
Get therapy. Treat him better – consistently, for years.