I haven't seen anyone bring it up, but this is exactly the same type of scenario as the “She Divorced Me because I left dishes by the sink” article
Once you've told them that a behavior is bothersome to you, and to help you with the mess that behavior causes and they don't, they are being disrespectful. You share a house, he is being disrespectful every time he does this. He knows it's gross, he knows it bothers you, he knows he's teaching his kids bad habits. It may not be massively egregious, but it chips away at your feelings towards someone, to have them ignore very simple and hygienic requests.
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I’m confused…am I meant to be keeping secrets?!? :O Dammit, no wonder everything is going so well!
I haven't seen anyone bring it up, but this is exactly the same type of scenario as the “She Divorced Me because I left dishes by the sink” article
Once you've told them that a behavior is bothersome to you, and to help you with the mess that behavior causes and they don't, they are being disrespectful. You share a house, he is being disrespectful every time he does this. He knows it's gross, he knows it bothers you, he knows he's teaching his kids bad habits. It may not be massively egregious, but it chips away at your feelings towards someone, to have them ignore very simple and hygienic requests.