Also the fact he wait TOO long to ask her out, is another thing to factor in. I say after three months if you’re friends with someone you have a crush on and neither has made a move to ask out? Safe to say it’s one sided/unrequited.
I do, I'm more adventurous than he is (or I thought so), I'm very sex positive and on average we have sex at least once a day. All the things he asked those girls (deep throat mostly) I did without him even having to ask. I initiate more often than he does but that's a good question.
First she says she’s not ready, so take her at her word. Second, when stressed her reaction isn’t to seek support from you, it isn’t to let you know and ask for space, it’s to go straight to nuclear and break up. This is a horrible coping mechanism for stress and a huge red flag. Any stress and she could react like this again. Let this one go.
Is it a romantic type kiss, or a quick kiss goodbye? She is pushing your boundaries and not respecting you. You should let her know if it's a make or break thing, and then follow through. If you meant as much to her as she does to you she would at least try.
He sounds like a douche.
You don’t have to accept disrespect in a relationship. You don’t have to accept being yelled at, or being spoken rudely to.
In my relationships, a partner treating me like this would be a deal breaker
Also the fact he wait TOO long to ask her out, is another thing to factor in. I say after three months if you’re friends with someone you have a crush on and neither has made a move to ask out? Safe to say it’s one sided/unrequited.
Definitely don't lie. He's obviously not that special. You'll be fine.
I do, I'm more adventurous than he is (or I thought so), I'm very sex positive and on average we have sex at least once a day. All the things he asked those girls (deep throat mostly) I did without him even having to ask. I initiate more often than he does but that's a good question.
She isn't codependent, you are
First she says she’s not ready, so take her at her word. Second, when stressed her reaction isn’t to seek support from you, it isn’t to let you know and ask for space, it’s to go straight to nuclear and break up. This is a horrible coping mechanism for stress and a huge red flag. Any stress and she could react like this again. Let this one go.
Is it a romantic type kiss, or a quick kiss goodbye? She is pushing your boundaries and not respecting you. You should let her know if it's a make or break thing, and then follow through. If you meant as much to her as she does to you she would at least try.