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Do we think it's the original OP, or do they collect 'ccontroversial' sounding posts and copy-paste them for inexplicable reasons?
Is it possible that she has expected, after you sold a house, moved, gave up a pet, and then helped her family out substantially with money, that you were never going to make an issue about money, and that she maybe thought that, in marrying you, she was going to be able to expect you to start paying for everything? And now that you’re showing a concern about wastefulness she’s backtracking on the things you agreed upon regarding your marriage because she thinks you’re going to be stingier than she expected? Or that she’s trying to use the things you want in a marriage as a bargaining tool to get her way?
I’m not saying this is what’s happening, because I don’t know – but I’m curious if it’s a possibility.