10 thoughts on “KellyQunilly online sex chats for YOU!”
This is like when people turn the conversation back towards you to detract from themselves- “You would ONLY bring that up if you didn’t trust me!”- or “see I KNEW you would react like that- that’s why I didn’t tell you. I told you it’s nothing but you always act crazy.”
It IS gaslighting. You didn’t do anything wrong but notice a fucked up objects in the back/foreground of a photo. You didn’t TAKE the photo- you didn’t SEND the photo.
I dated a guy once that loves to use the line “that’s just you having a guilty conscience, that’s why you think that way-“ or my personal favorite, “well I’m not like you, cause I wouldn’t think that way- so obviously if you thought that- that’s something you would do”….
Actually, no it’s not. Lol. But the whole truth is generally appreciated when it comes to situations that involve friendly get-aways with people who have sampled your? or your ?- yanno? Lol.
And I don’t feel like it’s asking too much to expect that level of honesty- or to give that much either.
So then if she won’t let you set any boundaries I guess you have none either. Coming from a woman- if she valued you she wouldn’t be posting that. I stopped posting pictures that weren’t even provocative but still showed a “sexy” vibe when I started dating my boyfriend out of pure respect, because yes women know exactly what thirst traps do and no it isn’t for “fun” like some women pretend
check the tinder subreddit to see how many men are getting laid everyday lol. the grass aint greener on the other side but if you wanna fuck it up go ahead?
“our baby”… if he’s not paying some costs and is now hostile to any contact get child support. Your child shouldn’t have to grow up disadvantaged because their father can’t be bothered.
I grew up poor as hell because my “father” preferred drinking to being responsible for his children. It wouldn’t have taken much of his weekly beer budget for us to have lived a much better life. Fortunately he died a few months off retirement age and my brothers and I got all of his retirement savings.
This is the only “adult” relationship you've ever been in, and you've been in it all the way through high school. You have nothing to compare it to in order to decide whether this is the best long-term relationship with you.
Date casually for the next year or so while you grieve this relationship. Give it at least a year before you get serious with someone again. Make sure you understand what is/isn't a deal-breaker for you, what your boundaries are, and how you will enforce those boundaries.
Go enjoy your life and find out WHO YOU ARE without a long-term boyfriend!
Tbh, I would not be okay with this scenario either. Of my so or I don’t feel like sex, we sometimes masturbate with each other present, holding each other and kissing. We would not do this sneakily in another room, when our partner is in the house while watching other people (porn). When we’re away from each other, my boyfriend has naughty videos of us and pictures of me.
You kinda said to her “tough cookies, I’m going to continue looking at other women while jacking myself off, even if you’re in the same place as I am”.
This is like when people turn the conversation back towards you to detract from themselves- “You would ONLY bring that up if you didn’t trust me!”- or “see I KNEW you would react like that- that’s why I didn’t tell you. I told you it’s nothing but you always act crazy.”
It IS gaslighting. You didn’t do anything wrong but notice a fucked up objects in the back/foreground of a photo. You didn’t TAKE the photo- you didn’t SEND the photo.
I dated a guy once that loves to use the line “that’s just you having a guilty conscience, that’s why you think that way-“ or my personal favorite, “well I’m not like you, cause I wouldn’t think that way- so obviously if you thought that- that’s something you would do”….
Actually, no it’s not. Lol. But the whole truth is generally appreciated when it comes to situations that involve friendly get-aways with people who have sampled your? or your ?- yanno? Lol.
And I don’t feel like it’s asking too much to expect that level of honesty- or to give that much either.
Tell them you have covid. Should buy you a couple of weeks freedom where you can hole yourself up in one of the rooms.
This is very distressing & I hate it for both of you . Can you tell us what her medical problems are please . That may help
So then if she won’t let you set any boundaries I guess you have none either. Coming from a woman- if she valued you she wouldn’t be posting that. I stopped posting pictures that weren’t even provocative but still showed a “sexy” vibe when I started dating my boyfriend out of pure respect, because yes women know exactly what thirst traps do and no it isn’t for “fun” like some women pretend
Is this the first time that FIL has acted immaturely and controlling?
check the tinder subreddit to see how many men are getting laid everyday lol. the grass aint greener on the other side but if you wanna fuck it up go ahead?
Ask her if you can have sex with her during her next gaming session with them. Assert your dominance.
“our baby”… if he’s not paying some costs and is now hostile to any contact get child support. Your child shouldn’t have to grow up disadvantaged because their father can’t be bothered.
I grew up poor as hell because my “father” preferred drinking to being responsible for his children. It wouldn’t have taken much of his weekly beer budget for us to have lived a much better life. Fortunately he died a few months off retirement age and my brothers and I got all of his retirement savings.
Break up!
This is the only “adult” relationship you've ever been in, and you've been in it all the way through high school. You have nothing to compare it to in order to decide whether this is the best long-term relationship with you.
Date casually for the next year or so while you grieve this relationship. Give it at least a year before you get serious with someone again. Make sure you understand what is/isn't a deal-breaker for you, what your boundaries are, and how you will enforce those boundaries.
Go enjoy your life and find out WHO YOU ARE without a long-term boyfriend!
Tbh, I would not be okay with this scenario either. Of my so or I don’t feel like sex, we sometimes masturbate with each other present, holding each other and kissing. We would not do this sneakily in another room, when our partner is in the house while watching other people (porn). When we’re away from each other, my boyfriend has naughty videos of us and pictures of me.
You kinda said to her “tough cookies, I’m going to continue looking at other women while jacking myself off, even if you’re in the same place as I am”.
I can imagine why she is still processing this.