I stray away from calling anyone narcissistic, because that word gets thrown around so much on the internet, but with that definition it makes complete sense
Your wife moving to another state should not even be on the table. She can divorce your and move out, but she does not get to unilaterally decide she is moving with your Children. Get a lawyer and strap that from happening immediately. Your kids also have every right to know their new sibling.
“There was one regular guy I had been seeing, that my ex had initially said no to”
And you didn't listen. You broke rule 1 – honest and open communication If you are going to do any sort of Open Relationship/Polyamory where you don't listen to your partner then it won't work. In these relationships open and honest communication where you is so important.
I'm not saying it would have worked out for you two if you hadn't dated the NoNo guy but ignoring your partner's a good way to get dumped in any form of relationship.
How old are you both and how long have you been in a romantic relationship together?
I stray away from calling anyone narcissistic, because that word gets thrown around so much on the internet, but with that definition it makes complete sense
I don't understand why y'all don't just put a little side table next to the couch for him.
Instead of trying to figure out who's in the wrong, why not just find a solution that accommodates everyone?
Your wife moving to another state should not even be on the table. She can divorce your and move out, but she does not get to unilaterally decide she is moving with your Children. Get a lawyer and strap that from happening immediately. Your kids also have every right to know their new sibling.
“There was one regular guy I had been seeing, that my ex had initially said no to”
And you didn't listen. You broke rule 1 – honest and open communication If you are going to do any sort of Open Relationship/Polyamory where you don't listen to your partner then it won't work. In these relationships open and honest communication where you is so important.
I'm not saying it would have worked out for you two if you hadn't dated the NoNo guy but ignoring your partner's a good way to get dumped in any form of relationship.
Get out now! He’s proven to you multiple times already he’s not concerned with how you feel.
And you KNOW it… Or you wouldn’t be on Reddit venting and asking for confirmation of what you already know.
YOU DESERVE better girl… Leave his sorry ass!