You didn’t do anything to insinuate that you wanted him or to help with the problem it was just something you said I don’t think this counts as cheating anything but if you’re uncomfortable with what you said now you know your own boundaries better
There’s been many times where he has over exaggerated a situation when it comes to other males,
If you're that drunk you can't remember he can tell you what he likes, one reason to stay in control and not get legless, another is your personal safely
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OP Before reconsidering reconciliation, ask yourself, how can you know that things are going to be different this time?
She has not taken any responsibility for what she did to you. The reason why she doesn't want to give you an explanation of what brings your marriage to an end is because she doesn't want to face the consequences of her actions and being vague about it allows her to use you as a plan b.
If there were problems in your marriage, she gave you the opportunity to work on them?,did she apologize for breaking your heart and your family and being selfish looking for a relationship with this girl ( come on OP you know that they were more than friends), she gave you the opportunity to have closure? And finally, can you really trust her again?
OP Reconciliation tales a lot of hard work from both facing the ugly feelings to rebuilt trust, and your wife doesn't want to do it. If she can't be honest with you, there is no point in rekindling this relationship. You are going to be in fear of being dumped and looking over your shoulder all the time.
Better nip her spending in the butt before marriage and children. Good luck. Shit happens in life all the time. Good luck. Oh… and get a prenup my friend.
Also I’m curious about the friends role. Look at OPs comments, the friend is a little shady too. How does she know they aren’t all ready sleeping together?
If he is gay or bi, he seems to be Narnia-level deep in the closet. I'd think it'll take him at least 10 years and a failed marriage to dig himself out. Act normal, be a good supportive friend, let him live his life and make his mistakes – at the moment there is nothing you can do but live your own life, and try to find other romantic partners, who are not caught in a web of guilt, family obligations, religious indoctrination and cultural conditioning.
Y'all need to go to counseling is what y'all need to do
You didn’t do anything to insinuate that you wanted him or to help with the problem it was just something you said I don’t think this counts as cheating anything but if you’re uncomfortable with what you said now you know your own boundaries better
You can find them in ur classes, at dining halls, ur roomate, the dorm residents near u, etc basically anywhere
Girl please leave this fool. The more I read the angrier I get for you.
There’s been many times where he has over exaggerated a situation when it comes to other males,
If you're that drunk you can't remember he can tell you what he likes, one reason to stay in control and not get legless, another is your personal safely
Not all of us, most of us. My sister pointed out that it would be nice if I started buying him gifts.
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Wtf no
She’s stupid. Why’d you want to go out with someone like that?
OP Before reconsidering reconciliation, ask yourself, how can you know that things are going to be different this time?
She has not taken any responsibility for what she did to you. The reason why she doesn't want to give you an explanation of what brings your marriage to an end is because she doesn't want to face the consequences of her actions and being vague about it allows her to use you as a plan b.
If there were problems in your marriage, she gave you the opportunity to work on them?,did she apologize for breaking your heart and your family and being selfish looking for a relationship with this girl ( come on OP you know that they were more than friends), she gave you the opportunity to have closure? And finally, can you really trust her again?
OP Reconciliation tales a lot of hard work from both facing the ugly feelings to rebuilt trust, and your wife doesn't want to do it. If she can't be honest with you, there is no point in rekindling this relationship. You are going to be in fear of being dumped and looking over your shoulder all the time.
So there is a fear of being hurt again that is biasing your actions and perceptions?
It’s your wedding, life, relationships. Trust yourself to make the decision. Lots of ways to incorporate both dads if that’s what you want.
There's a lot to unpack here. Leaving a comment to see what others say.
Better nip her spending in the butt before marriage and children. Good luck. Shit happens in life all the time. Good luck. Oh… and get a prenup my friend.
whats “ta raaa”? whats condescending about a compliment?
they are silly sexy fun (unless you're a person who gets really turned on by them)
what kind of sicko gets turned on by almost hard women gyrating on them? Almost no one.
Also I’m curious about the friends role. Look at OPs comments, the friend is a little shady too. How does she know they aren’t all ready sleeping together?
If he is gay or bi, he seems to be Narnia-level deep in the closet. I'd think it'll take him at least 10 years and a failed marriage to dig himself out. Act normal, be a good supportive friend, let him live his life and make his mistakes – at the moment there is nothing you can do but live your own life, and try to find other romantic partners, who are not caught in a web of guilt, family obligations, religious indoctrination and cultural conditioning.