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I would look into compassion fatigue and some resources to help. What you’re dealing with sounds very similar, and things get sticky when the lines between lover and caretaker are blurred.
I am in a similar situation, so the more I think about this the more it tangles my brain, but what I can say for sure is that your needs are 1000% valid and deserve to be fulfilled. You do not exist solely to care for another human. You are not a shitty boyfriend or selfish person for having needs.
The only thing you need to evaluate is your mismatched ambition. At 26 you were the manager of a 54yo dude. His career hasn’t progressed very far and you can’t expect anything different in the future. If you look at his employment history, you’ll probably see a lot of holes where he had a woman like you supporting him. He kinda sounds like a bum that gets by on his looks. Good for y’all if so and you’re happy with that – some people just need a lap dog.
Next is just something to consider. He’s 28 years older than you. In 28 years you’ll be 56 and he’ll be 84 and you’ll be changing his diaper.
He sounds abusive and unhinged. Maybe he's on drugs or steroids or just an abusive arsehole vitimising a much younger woman. Either way, it's not you, it's him. Dump him and find someone who respects you and treats you right. No doubt he'll try and suck you back in with promises to change. He won't.
“We are broken up. I don’t need your input, and this is not a negotiation. I am a pour to block you on all platforms. This is your warning that any contact in person will be unwanted. If you approach me, I will get an order of protection against you.”
Well. Sorry but y’all aren’t spring chickens anymore. In 2 years her pregnancy is considered a geriatric pregnancy. I’m not saying rush into it- I just understand her urgency in wanting to settle in and start a family. I had my child at 23 and now I’m 36. I can’t imagine starting now.
You had boundaries in place that you had shared, he chose to test those boundaries and then when you stood firm he stopped texting you as regularly. He does sound like a couple of walking red flags.
I would just remove him and get on with life to avoid the drama, personally.
Divorce hasn't even been fully started yet as we need to be separated 1 year, but have come to an agreement for 50/50 childcare and we cover individual costs like food by ourselves, but schools supplies and that we share.
I would look into compassion fatigue and some resources to help. What you’re dealing with sounds very similar, and things get sticky when the lines between lover and caretaker are blurred.
I am in a similar situation, so the more I think about this the more it tangles my brain, but what I can say for sure is that your needs are 1000% valid and deserve to be fulfilled. You do not exist solely to care for another human. You are not a shitty boyfriend or selfish person for having needs.
The only thing you need to evaluate is your mismatched ambition. At 26 you were the manager of a 54yo dude. His career hasn’t progressed very far and you can’t expect anything different in the future. If you look at his employment history, you’ll probably see a lot of holes where he had a woman like you supporting him. He kinda sounds like a bum that gets by on his looks. Good for y’all if so and you’re happy with that – some people just need a lap dog.
Next is just something to consider. He’s 28 years older than you. In 28 years you’ll be 56 and he’ll be 84 and you’ll be changing his diaper.
Along with therapy, I guess also could try do this, do I just:
“Hey, can I hop along with you and your friends?”
He sounds abusive and unhinged. Maybe he's on drugs or steroids or just an abusive arsehole vitimising a much younger woman. Either way, it's not you, it's him. Dump him and find someone who respects you and treats you right. No doubt he'll try and suck you back in with promises to change. He won't.
“We are broken up. I don’t need your input, and this is not a negotiation. I am a pour to block you on all platforms. This is your warning that any contact in person will be unwanted. If you approach me, I will get an order of protection against you.”
Well. Sorry but y’all aren’t spring chickens anymore. In 2 years her pregnancy is considered a geriatric pregnancy. I’m not saying rush into it- I just understand her urgency in wanting to settle in and start a family. I had my child at 23 and now I’m 36. I can’t imagine starting now.
You had boundaries in place that you had shared, he chose to test those boundaries and then when you stood firm he stopped texting you as regularly. He does sound like a couple of walking red flags.
I would just remove him and get on with life to avoid the drama, personally.
Divorce hasn't even been fully started yet as we need to be separated 1 year, but have come to an agreement for 50/50 childcare and we cover individual costs like food by ourselves, but schools supplies and that we share.