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If she’s open to it, consider getting this book for her or having her purchase it. And then her actually read it. I found it very helpful when I was learning to set boundaries.
Boundaries (Henry Cloud & John Townsend)
You said it yourself, you trust your wife 100%. That’s a huge thing. Now you need to keep reminding yourself of that when you’re struggling with your own insecurities.
Perhaps start planning true date nights again at least once a week. Even if it’s just at home once the kids are in bed. Really use that time to focus on each other and your relationship/connection. Look at old photos, talk about fun memories, play a game where you guys ask some basic questions about each other again to remind each other about core values and likes and such. Truly work on re-connecting. And if you can’t do a full date night, plan mini-dates. 30min here and there of uninterrupted time is better than nothing!
I’d like to think some of this will help your self-esteem.
And keep being open/honest with each other, but do it in a calm and respectful way.
I was in a very similar situation a few years ago. I fell in love with a new friend the longer I spent time with him, and he ended up becoming my best friend. I never told him how I felt out of insecurity, and regretted it dearly once he started dating someone else. It hurt a lot. But I didn't want to lose my friend. So I kept being friends, got to know his girlfriend a bit, she was a very nice person. I started having ONS so that I wouldn't do anything stupid out of horniness.
Eventually he would start occasionally discussing their relationship problems with me. I tried to give as neutral advice as I possibly could, not wanting to be selfish. And then he broke up with her. After that he and I started dating. I'm pretty sure she had known about me having feelings toward him, she sent a message to me after they broke up and asked me to look after him.
Dating him was wonderful. But not perfect and we eventually broke up too. Felt like there was just one problem too many for us to keep going. And it hurt 100 times more to see him find a new partner than it had hurt with the previous girlfriend.
My advice is that for now you focus on becoming the best version of you that you can be. Have not-so-serious relationships/ONS whenever you crave intimacy. Focus on your hobbies. If you have any kind of health issues, work on making them better. Learn to be fine in your own company. Do not under any circumstances let yourself do anything to sabotage their relationship. Just be a friend. If he has feelings for you, you might end up dating if his current relationship ends at some point. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO GUARANTEE that you'd end up together, and even if you do it's unlikely that it'll be your fairytale “and they lived happily ever after”. But if you focus on yourself, there might be less problems if you start a romantic relationship, or you can attract someone else wonderful in your life too.
He seems like a wonderul friend. Losing a wonderful friend can be even more painful than unrequited love, so I would think twice before ending that friendship. But in the end it's up to you to decide what is best for you.
Thanks for the answer. Definitely one to think about. It really does feel like mind games sometimes
Oh shut the fuck up. You are a horrible person and toxic af. You think you are in any place to judge me???? Hell no bitch. Sitting there and typing away as if you have any right to talk the way you do after you knowingly abuse another human being and FEEL NO REMORSE FOR IT. Fuck you to the deepest depths of hell.
u could try being thankful for the gift he got u instead of obsessing over it not being a certain brand
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Why is this person you’ve only known a few months “partner” status and living together rather than just girlfriend, after you’ve recently ended an 8 year relationship?
Yikes dude. And the new “partner” is interjecting herself where she doesn’t belong. This is a hint of what’s to come (controlling and insecure behaviour)
The only thing you can do is tell your friend and her boyfriend to shut the fuck up and stop bringing it up, or you will never talk to them again. Also while you did mess up by telling you friend, she also messed up massively by telling her boyfriend. Why aren't you angry at both of them?
Show your bf that you are on his side, and leave the decision making to him.
He is embarrassed, angry, and feels betrayed, so getting over it may take some time, and perhaps won't even work.
Sorry. This sucks. But the decision is made. If you want to stay in touch with this woman, it's going to be only as friends. Don't try to change her mind.
Tell him to make a pros/cons list and share it with you.
It's only my view, I find it way less sleazy to just have a bare account to follow women to look at if you want to, than do it on your public account that everyone can see, friends, relatives etc. About the wife, the OP said that she's insecure, so I'm taking her words as fact. Of course we don't know. I'm not talking about the girl telling her mom about it. I was only talking about the following half hot women thing.
I think women are gorgeous and sexy as hell, and I still don't have that urge to follow thousands of women to just look at them. That'll always be mystifying to me.
There are several variables to consider,
First: okay was used. Not accept. Accept != okay. Okay means what exactly and in what context. Can feelings that resolve to “okay” mean that the Initial response was “not okay”. Second: she was already livid by the situation. Third: children in car. Four: relationship dynamics, e.g. she told him to put the kids in the car. Is she the one 'wearing the pants' making designs often. Is there a sense of submission. Five: familia dynamics. Six: exhaustion. Seven: consideration of topic, perhaps the subject means nothing to him or perhaps he has gained new insight. Eight: how are discussions usually go within their relationship. It's a wonder this has never come up before after 8 years of marriage. Nine: hypothetical. Ten: embarrassment. Eleven: the answer isn't clear cut.
Are you sure you’re both in your twenties? This sounds more like young teenagers playing “dare”.
There’s ways to satisfy her need for girth. I am average in size at best. But I fit as many digits and have tried to get my whole fist inside her and she loves it. We have toys and I’ll insert a vibrating dildo with my penis and it feels great for both of us. Yes, what she did was wrong and inappropriate. But also, are you doing everything you can to make sure she is satisfied? Fuck around and push both of your boundaries. You’ll both enjoy it. I promise.