It doesn’t sound to me like Danny is being a very good friend. A good friend wouldn’t be friends with someone who ices someone else out or who says negative things constantly about other people.
If I needed to continue in this friend group, I would definitely never invite them to anything at my own house and stop attending anything Danny hosts.
Lay it out straight to her. Either she meets your emotional needs and stops acting like a spoilt little brat or you're out. I'm not suggesting you throw away everything so suddenly without thinking, but you know that this marriage isn't healthy for you. And the way she behaves, if allowed to continue, will only get worse and you'll just be wasting young years of your life to someone who cannot even appreciate the things you do let alone make you feel loved and cared for.
Don’t reply, your feeling conflicted because your a good person. She has showed you her true colours so don’t engage. I suspect she contacted you because she knows you will feel conflicted and help her out regardless of her being a horrible person.
It doesn’t sound to me like Danny is being a very good friend. A good friend wouldn’t be friends with someone who ices someone else out or who says negative things constantly about other people.
If I needed to continue in this friend group, I would definitely never invite them to anything at my own house and stop attending anything Danny hosts.
Lay it out straight to her. Either she meets your emotional needs and stops acting like a spoilt little brat or you're out. I'm not suggesting you throw away everything so suddenly without thinking, but you know that this marriage isn't healthy for you. And the way she behaves, if allowed to continue, will only get worse and you'll just be wasting young years of your life to someone who cannot even appreciate the things you do let alone make you feel loved and cared for.
No.
I think your right. Something else is at play here from SIL
Where do these types of men hangout, so I can avoid them at all costs?
Don’t reply, your feeling conflicted because your a good person. She has showed you her true colours so don’t engage. I suspect she contacted you because she knows you will feel conflicted and help her out regardless of her being a horrible person.