Why would they tell you the note existed and then not give it to you, that’s weird. I’d point that out and say while you would have been fine not knowing, but the fact that they told you means it is hanging over you is damaging your mental health and you’d rather just know instead of catastrophizing in your head what it says.
Tell him how uncomfortable it makes you and bring up the possibility of him not telling her these ideas anymore and perhaps cutting contact with her. If he wants you to feel comfortable sharing your life with him, he ought to comply.
It sounds like he has a great, not jealous, trusting girlfriend… Which honestly makes this all the more sickening. Please do tell her, whatever happens with your relationship with your brother.
The amount of people here assuming you should just run from anyone who has a cluster B personality disorder? I’d say it depends on if he’s getting treatment or not
It’s amazing how much one changes from teenager to twenty-something to thirty-something, etc. At 18 you are nearing your most beautiful years and your emotions are hitting the hardest and almost have a life of their own. Know yourself and manage your emotions. Your friendships are more important than passing emotions.
She is trying to manipulate you big time. Don't play her games. Don't listen to her family. Don't see her. She made the decision to have sex with someone else while in a relationship, pretty much arranged it right in front of your face and then lied about it. What else is there to say? She has family to support her, tell them that, then block them. Block her sister.
Honestly, your ex sounds completely unhinged.. Especially if she's still calling you her bf. Get away from that and stay away.
Why would they tell you the note existed and then not give it to you, that’s weird. I’d point that out and say while you would have been fine not knowing, but the fact that they told you means it is hanging over you is damaging your mental health and you’d rather just know instead of catastrophizing in your head what it says.
Tell him how uncomfortable it makes you and bring up the possibility of him not telling her these ideas anymore and perhaps cutting contact with her. If he wants you to feel comfortable sharing your life with him, he ought to comply.
Oh my good lord, NO
Nothing good will come out of that conversation. You do not need anything else to fixate on. Just accept that she's happy to be with you.
It sounds like he has a great, not jealous, trusting girlfriend… Which honestly makes this all the more sickening. Please do tell her, whatever happens with your relationship with your brother.
You sound like a horrible cunt I pray to fuck I don’t end up with someone like you haha
The amount of people here assuming you should just run from anyone who has a cluster B personality disorder? I’d say it depends on if he’s getting treatment or not
It’s amazing how much one changes from teenager to twenty-something to thirty-something, etc. At 18 you are nearing your most beautiful years and your emotions are hitting the hardest and almost have a life of their own. Know yourself and manage your emotions. Your friendships are more important than passing emotions.
She is trying to manipulate you big time. Don't play her games. Don't listen to her family. Don't see her. She made the decision to have sex with someone else while in a relationship, pretty much arranged it right in front of your face and then lied about it. What else is there to say? She has family to support her, tell them that, then block them. Block her sister.
Honestly, your ex sounds completely unhinged.. Especially if she's still calling you her bf. Get away from that and stay away.