Same here, never been to court, but he’s been going every other weekend for years. For the past 2 months or so he doesn’t want to go. Said his dad and his girlfriend fight and he doesn’t like it. I encourage him to go, but I’m certainly not gonna force him to go somewhere he doesn’t feel safe. I actually prefer there to be a woman around, makes me feel better to send him there. I don’t do the drama.
Someone else described a 3some in committed relationship as Russian Roulette (wish I could remember who) but it stuck with me because that’s exactly how I feel but couldn’t articulate. There is no way to truly anticipate the repercussions. You could plan and talk then scenario to death but you can’t anticipate feelings and I personally won’t risk it damaging the good (& fulfilling) thing we have going.
You should have just went to the bar they were going to, so you could have seen for yourself and your friend won’t end up in an uncomfortable situation.
Your not compatible to her.
You will be happy once you find someone else that is.
Hoping dog got a better home
An actual answer
Then don't threaten to kick him out and give him till Wednesday to clear his stuff out. If he has a car he has a place to live!.
That's an awesome boss. We need more like him.
Same here, never been to court, but he’s been going every other weekend for years. For the past 2 months or so he doesn’t want to go. Said his dad and his girlfriend fight and he doesn’t like it. I encourage him to go, but I’m certainly not gonna force him to go somewhere he doesn’t feel safe. I actually prefer there to be a woman around, makes me feel better to send him there. I don’t do the drama.
Someone else described a 3some in committed relationship as Russian Roulette (wish I could remember who) but it stuck with me because that’s exactly how I feel but couldn’t articulate. There is no way to truly anticipate the repercussions. You could plan and talk then scenario to death but you can’t anticipate feelings and I personally won’t risk it damaging the good (& fulfilling) thing we have going.
You should have just went to the bar they were going to, so you could have seen for yourself and your friend won’t end up in an uncomfortable situation.