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I would say that these buzzwords are definitely apart of the modern times. I think looking at each situation objectively helps. Being truly in love and making your partner feel loved, in itself, is healthy. But what it comes with (gaslighting, manipulation, etc) is what makes it lovebombing.
And this is something many people in this thread are not capable of comprehending. Tgat regardless of the viral load, most people wouldn't consider it. She deprived the guy of that choice.
If youâre not happy being in a committed relationship, do yourselves both a favor and leave him.
Do not, however, expect him to stick around as a âbest friend.â If he does, know that itâs almost certainly to get back with you again. It almost never ends well.
I honestly donât think you can have your cake and eat it too here.
Might be a good time to start considering something more realistic.
Not saying put down the mic, by all means, make a hobby out of it, build up a social media presence, take lessons, and continue to sing because its his passion.
But like you said:
He has never worked in his life, his parents support him financially. I am worried he will keep chasing this dream and basically throw his life away.
He is… getting awfully close to that throwing his life away moment and you're going to be on the receiving end of it, ending up with someone who cannot offer financial security.
But, that's an assumption, maybe his family is one of those set for life kind because I have a hot time understanding how parents would still financially support their 35 year old son…
So I sort of do the same thing with friends. I literally met one of my friends because she was sobbing alone in the side of the building and I came over to speak with her and ask if sheâs okay and gave her emotional support.
The thing is, sheâs engulfed in her friendâs circumstances. All she can think about is what her friend went through and how traumatic the experience was.
What sheâs doing now is internalizing her friendâs feelings and processing them as âwhat if bf does the same?â Completely disregarding the fact that youâre nothing like her friendâs ex because sheâs in âprotect my friend at all costsâ mode.
What I would suggest you do before throwing the relationship away completely is to take your gf away just for a little bit from her friend.
Go out to her favorite fast food place or go out and get a pizza together.
The point is that you two go out together alone somewhere and have a talk with her in the car or somewhere where you can sit down and be in public or private together.
Mention how youâre feeling and how you feel like you want to give up on the relationship as sheâs unhealthily implying youâre abusive when youâve done nothing like her best friendâs ex.
Ask her what youâve done that is just like what her friendâs ex did.
Do i tell you what to wear?
Do I raise my voice at you during an argument?
Do i throw things or slam my hands in things when we fight?
Have I ever hit you?
Have you ever not felt safe being with me?
Ask her these questions and if she says no to all of them then ask her again why do you think after all this time and after I have never displayed abusive behavior do you think I need to do anything to make sure Iâm safe to be with? People who love each other donât ask for background checks and especially after 5 years together.
I understand that youâre concerned for your friend, but Iâm not your friendâs ex and you know that. I love you, but Iâm not comfortable with the idea that I have to do leg work to show you Iâm not abusive when Iâve been showing you. This is my boundary and Iâm willing to end this relationship if you honestly feel that I will hurt you in the future because I donât want to be the reason you canât trust me anymore.
Something along those lines. The importance is that you take her physically away from her friend to get her emotions in order and more focused on you.
in the US (if thatâs where they are) there is no FDA-approved test for HPV in men, and testing isnât generally recommended for men as it canât be diagnosed without the presence of warts.
not to say it shouldnât be a concern, but thereâs no way of knowing if heâs carrying it. many people in committed long-term relationships who have gotten tested and use reliable birth control donât use condoms because the risk is low. stop being so judgmental.
Could be an age difference – you have 10 years on each other. Dying your hair bright colors tends to be something you do when your young. At 32, you start seeing your partner and yourself as an adult. At 22, it's a mix between adulthood and youth. So it may see out of place.
Now that's just a possible reason, you're free to do as you wish. Sure, you run the risk of a statement like 'I liked you with your natural hair' but he'll get over it. Got to do what makes you feel happy at the end of the day.
Side note – not the biggest fan of what my wife has been doing to her hair. I'll tell her what I prefer, but end of the day – her head. Long as she's not showing up with a mohawk to pickup the kids, it's really not my call.
I don't think so, as long as you are upfront and let her know you want to be taken seriously. Just text her in a way that let's her know this is important to you. So maybe a little differently than how you might have texted her before. Be direct.
I would say that these buzzwords are definitely apart of the modern times. I think looking at each situation objectively helps. Being truly in love and making your partner feel loved, in itself, is healthy. But what it comes with (gaslighting, manipulation, etc) is what makes it lovebombing.
And this is something many people in this thread are not capable of comprehending. Tgat regardless of the viral load, most people wouldn't consider it. She deprived the guy of that choice.
what? if he's a normal likeable guy i promise you he'll have no problem finding someone to have children with lol.
If youâre not happy being in a committed relationship, do yourselves both a favor and leave him.
Do not, however, expect him to stick around as a âbest friend.â If he does, know that itâs almost certainly to get back with you again. It almost never ends well.
I honestly donât think you can have your cake and eat it too here.
I am sorry, but he is 35… and approaching 40.
Might be a good time to start considering something more realistic.
Not saying put down the mic, by all means, make a hobby out of it, build up a social media presence, take lessons, and continue to sing because its his passion.
But like you said:
He has never worked in his life, his parents support him financially. I am worried he will keep chasing this dream and basically throw his life away.
He is… getting awfully close to that throwing his life away moment and you're going to be on the receiving end of it, ending up with someone who cannot offer financial security.
But, that's an assumption, maybe his family is one of those set for life kind because I have a hot time understanding how parents would still financially support their 35 year old son…
Oh my hun⌠when you started dating you were 18 and he was 32. How on earth could you possibly be in the same stage of your lives?
UmmmâŚ. I wouldnât give up so fast.
So I sort of do the same thing with friends. I literally met one of my friends because she was sobbing alone in the side of the building and I came over to speak with her and ask if sheâs okay and gave her emotional support.
The thing is, sheâs engulfed in her friendâs circumstances. All she can think about is what her friend went through and how traumatic the experience was.
What sheâs doing now is internalizing her friendâs feelings and processing them as âwhat if bf does the same?â Completely disregarding the fact that youâre nothing like her friendâs ex because sheâs in âprotect my friend at all costsâ mode.
What I would suggest you do before throwing the relationship away completely is to take your gf away just for a little bit from her friend.
Go out to her favorite fast food place or go out and get a pizza together.
The point is that you two go out together alone somewhere and have a talk with her in the car or somewhere where you can sit down and be in public or private together.
Mention how youâre feeling and how you feel like you want to give up on the relationship as sheâs unhealthily implying youâre abusive when youâve done nothing like her best friendâs ex.
Ask her what youâve done that is just like what her friendâs ex did.
Do i tell you what to wear?
Do I raise my voice at you during an argument?
Do i throw things or slam my hands in things when we fight?
Have I ever hit you?
Have you ever not felt safe being with me?
Ask her these questions and if she says no to all of them then ask her again why do you think after all this time and after I have never displayed abusive behavior do you think I need to do anything to make sure Iâm safe to be with? People who love each other donât ask for background checks and especially after 5 years together.
I understand that youâre concerned for your friend, but Iâm not your friendâs ex and you know that. I love you, but Iâm not comfortable with the idea that I have to do leg work to show you Iâm not abusive when Iâve been showing you. This is my boundary and Iâm willing to end this relationship if you honestly feel that I will hurt you in the future because I donât want to be the reason you canât trust me anymore.
Something along those lines. The importance is that you take her physically away from her friend to get her emotions in order and more focused on you.
in the US (if thatâs where they are) there is no FDA-approved test for HPV in men, and testing isnât generally recommended for men as it canât be diagnosed without the presence of warts.
not to say it shouldnât be a concern, but thereâs no way of knowing if heâs carrying it. many people in committed long-term relationships who have gotten tested and use reliable birth control donât use condoms because the risk is low. stop being so judgmental.
Could be an age difference – you have 10 years on each other. Dying your hair bright colors tends to be something you do when your young. At 32, you start seeing your partner and yourself as an adult. At 22, it's a mix between adulthood and youth. So it may see out of place.
Now that's just a possible reason, you're free to do as you wish. Sure, you run the risk of a statement like 'I liked you with your natural hair' but he'll get over it. Got to do what makes you feel happy at the end of the day.
Side note – not the biggest fan of what my wife has been doing to her hair. I'll tell her what I prefer, but end of the day – her head. Long as she's not showing up with a mohawk to pickup the kids, it's really not my call.
I don't think so, as long as you are upfront and let her know you want to be taken seriously. Just text her in a way that let's her know this is important to you. So maybe a little differently than how you might have texted her before. Be direct.