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1. OP I have lived this: I’ve spent the last 4 years in back to back relationships with controlling, abusive men (one lasted 3 years, the other 1yr, and I am single now). In my experience, and from what I’ve heard from other abusive victims, this is how it starts. Both of my exes swore I was cheating and I could not convince them otherwise. They both said to me routinely VERBATIM “I have a gut feeling and my gut is rarely wrong”. Before too long they were both conjuring up these crazy scenarios where I was sneaking around behind their backs to continue to cheat. Both of them accused me of cheating and manipulating in ways I would NEVER even occur of me to do even if I was cheating! Then came the monitoring. They both went through my phone whenever they pleased, had my phones online location on at all times and would check it often. Google maps is a flawed program but they trusted it 100% and if it said I spent five minutes somewhere I hadn’t mentioned to them they’d go crazy. Then they’d have me go through my phone records and go over each number I had called even in the months prior to the start of our relationship and throughout. If I didn’t know a number (In phone records names don’t show up, just numbers), he’d call it (even in the middle of the night) if no one answered it must have been my lover. The one began restricting access to my own accounts. The other smashed my phone when I got a spam text. They both deleted all of my male fb friends (even family) and would run through each fb friend I had and interrogate me about my relationship with them. I have always had male friends but both my exes forbade me from speaking to them. Eventually I started talking to them behind their backs (platonically) and I was caught. My exes swore that means I was cheating. Eventually BOTH of them were sure I was cheating with everyone. Not just males but females too. One accused me of sleeping with my therapist- a straight, married woman. There would be these deep discussions I’d have with my exes where they basically sat me down and refused to get up until I confessed about my cheating. I NEVER CHEATED. They both also heard men with me when I was on the phone with them, one saw me get out of a man’s truck. THERE WERE NEVER ANY MEN WITH ME, NO TRUCK EITHER. By the end the first ex was beating me in front of my child for my imagined transgressions. I have a final restraining order against him. His girlfriend after me (who was with him and supported him through my RO court stuff) just contacted me because he did the exact same thing to her. He’s in jail- probably going to prison. The other ex just wound up controlling me and isolating me from everyone but never physically hurt me though toward the end he would get very physically intimidating. Both projected constantly. The point I’m trying to make OP is that the behavior like what you describe by your BF IS WHERE IT ALL STARTED. Both men could not have looked more different on paper and yet they wound up doing the same shit. I thought my relationship with them was healthy in the beginning to. That level of distrust is a huge red flag and is not healthy or normal. Him wanting to go with you everywhere is not normal. You’re entitled to your alone time and time spent with just your friends. NEVER let him deprive you of those things. That was my mistake and biggest regret. I have a bad feeling about this one. A gut feeling, and my gut is rarely wrong. Not nowadays anyway

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2. Yes tell him. It’s not fair to lead him on. Let him be with someone that wants all of him.

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