Like I said sometimes there aren’t reasons why and she just isn’t wanting sex. Your only advice is for her to violate her boundaries for the sake of a man. Doesn’t that not seam extremely sexist to you? To imply her boundaries don’t matter for the sake of a man’s feelings?
He’s the one creating an issue. He’s the one who has shown her her feelings of this doesn’t matter by not asking her or encouraging her to share them. She has done most of the work this far. She has communicated and she has done nothing but consider his feelings.
He’s the one making this difficult. He refuses to leave, find other ways for him to feel validated, trust that she does care but simply just doesn’t want sex. It’s not her job to find the solution to a problem that she doesn’t have. However she’s doing more than he is. His solution is try and make her have sex, not find out why, not create other ways to feel valid.
Except they're married and separated. Whatever life planning options he has will have to include the children and her as a coparent. But that'd commitment to their family/children not commitment to her.
She barely tried during their first time so how would she know if he was a good lover or not???
Yikes on bikes, she needs to get out of there
Like I said sometimes there aren’t reasons why and she just isn’t wanting sex. Your only advice is for her to violate her boundaries for the sake of a man. Doesn’t that not seam extremely sexist to you? To imply her boundaries don’t matter for the sake of a man’s feelings?
He’s the one creating an issue. He’s the one who has shown her her feelings of this doesn’t matter by not asking her or encouraging her to share them. She has done most of the work this far. She has communicated and she has done nothing but consider his feelings.
He’s the one making this difficult. He refuses to leave, find other ways for him to feel validated, trust that she does care but simply just doesn’t want sex. It’s not her job to find the solution to a problem that she doesn’t have. However she’s doing more than he is. His solution is try and make her have sex, not find out why, not create other ways to feel valid.
Except they're married and separated. Whatever life planning options he has will have to include the children and her as a coparent. But that'd commitment to their family/children not commitment to her.
the way all you do is talk shit about your husband who CLEARLY needs help after he tried to kill himself is really gross