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This makes no sense. She has a stable relationship with her daughters father and he isn’t going anywhere. So she is going to leave you hook up with another man to become baby mama to a second child. What guarantee is there that the second man will stay to take of this child.
Both of you waited too long to have kids. She is lucky she has one child. Many other women can’t say that. Try for a second child but with the society and the economy it’s brutally expensive to have a second child. Who will take care of the other child? That man? You will take care of her daughter. She will transform her life into the Jerry Springer show.
Not entirely true. Plenty of asexuals enjoy and are happy to have sex. She just isn't one of them, and is choosing to be a judgemental jerk to her boyfriend about it.
Not saying drop her, but there are more red flags here that I don't think you're seeing (which is understandable, given your history together based on your comments). People do fuck up, but therapy should be non negotiable imo. In addition to the manipulating, scheming, gaslighting, hitting, hidden resentment etc… I would be very concerned for your son down the road. She should not be jealous that her child has a healthy, loving attachment with her partner and his dad. She is possessive of him – what happens when he's older and starts to date? She should not be manipulating him into “loving” her, and as soon as he realizes what she's doing/done, he will be gone. Just my 2 cents, from having seen this play out before.
So… since you’re never home, how exactly does he have control over your life?
The control is something you are voluntarily giving your stepfather.
Here’s my advice, which you won’t like. Stop dating until you grow up enough to not rely on a daddy to run your life. Even if you are living under his roof.
Maybe he's not physically cheating, but he's absolutely emotionally cheating. There is absolutely no reason for him to talk to her that frequently for so long. You know he has been gaslighting you. You have the proof you need that he is having an emotional affair. Why does it need to be physical at this point? He's lied to your face over and over. He's done a lot of shady stuff. Maybe she is an ego boost for him, but why would you want to live your life always wondering if he's cheating or talking to her again? Good luck OP. The only thing that would keep me in a relationship with a man that has done all that, is if he agreed to find another job and start couples therapy. He should earn your trust back. Your gut has been telling you all this time and you're still here. Please keep us updated.
This makes no sense. She has a stable relationship with her daughters father and he isn’t going anywhere. So she is going to leave you hook up with another man to become baby mama to a second child. What guarantee is there that the second man will stay to take of this child.
Both of you waited too long to have kids. She is lucky she has one child. Many other women can’t say that. Try for a second child but with the society and the economy it’s brutally expensive to have a second child. Who will take care of the other child? That man? You will take care of her daughter. She will transform her life into the Jerry Springer show.
Sounds like derealisation or depersinalisation to me I have had similar experiences but without the violence or the alcohol
You should prob not spend as much time round there or mostly see her when your with your bf
Thank you for the advice. I'll try talking to her about this sometime.
Not entirely true. Plenty of asexuals enjoy and are happy to have sex. She just isn't one of them, and is choosing to be a judgemental jerk to her boyfriend about it.
Not saying drop her, but there are more red flags here that I don't think you're seeing (which is understandable, given your history together based on your comments). People do fuck up, but therapy should be non negotiable imo. In addition to the manipulating, scheming, gaslighting, hitting, hidden resentment etc… I would be very concerned for your son down the road. She should not be jealous that her child has a healthy, loving attachment with her partner and his dad. She is possessive of him – what happens when he's older and starts to date? She should not be manipulating him into “loving” her, and as soon as he realizes what she's doing/done, he will be gone. Just my 2 cents, from having seen this play out before.
So… since you’re never home, how exactly does he have control over your life?
The control is something you are voluntarily giving your stepfather.
Here’s my advice, which you won’t like. Stop dating until you grow up enough to not rely on a daddy to run your life. Even if you are living under his roof.
It’s like rain on your wedding day.
Maybe he's not physically cheating, but he's absolutely emotionally cheating. There is absolutely no reason for him to talk to her that frequently for so long. You know he has been gaslighting you. You have the proof you need that he is having an emotional affair. Why does it need to be physical at this point? He's lied to your face over and over. He's done a lot of shady stuff. Maybe she is an ego boost for him, but why would you want to live your life always wondering if he's cheating or talking to her again? Good luck OP. The only thing that would keep me in a relationship with a man that has done all that, is if he agreed to find another job and start couples therapy. He should earn your trust back. Your gut has been telling you all this time and you're still here. Please keep us updated.
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Okay, so assuming you guys share a bedroom… what are the other two rooms used for? They keyboard can't go in one of those?