You both seem to be broken. You both seem to be able to find someone when you want to cheat, but I suspect it might just be the same old thing if the two of you had different partners. I really don't know what to suggest. Mostly I hope the kids somehow turn out ok.
Refuse to pay, retract your money and go buy a house for market rate. It’s the principal of the matter! It’s only gonna cost you $800k more to keep your pride intact.
One word: manipulation. Abusive partners are excellent manipulators and know exactly how to make their partner feel like it's all their fault they're being abused. It can take years to find the courage to leave someone, even when you know what's happening is wrong.
Doing crazy threesome stuff can be dangerous. Things can go wrong. Don't do it with people you need to see again. Np work buddies, no roommates, not the landlord, not your kids teacher.
There's sites out there to do random stuff with folks that you'll never see again unless you want to.
dump her
You both seem to be broken. You both seem to be able to find someone when you want to cheat, but I suspect it might just be the same old thing if the two of you had different partners. I really don't know what to suggest. Mostly I hope the kids somehow turn out ok.
Your husband even making that joke to the doctor is screwed up considering some doctors would actually listen. You married a douche bag
At this point, I think OP should just keep sleeping with everyone around his GF.
He'll be a family heirloom…
Refuse to pay, retract your money and go buy a house for market rate. It’s the principal of the matter! It’s only gonna cost you $800k more to keep your pride intact.
That is a break up. Tell her that you will not wait around and don't expect her to either.
Even if she doesn't have someone else lined up, one month of not being together means that she is choosing, 'not you.'
Letcher go and if you want to circle back around after a month, set new boundaries.
Women ALWAYS have men in their DMs whether they want them or not.
One word: manipulation. Abusive partners are excellent manipulators and know exactly how to make their partner feel like it's all their fault they're being abused. It can take years to find the courage to leave someone, even when you know what's happening is wrong.
He doesn't seem like he wants to be a father. I would abort it just for that alone.
Doing crazy threesome stuff can be dangerous. Things can go wrong. Don't do it with people you need to see again. Np work buddies, no roommates, not the landlord, not your kids teacher.
There's sites out there to do random stuff with folks that you'll never see again unless you want to.