So you’ve been together a year. Plenty of time to see how he deals with similar events.
So what did he do for your birthday? What did he do for Valentine’s Day, what did he do for Christmas? What did he want to do for his birthday?
How has he shown his appreciation for the things that you did on those days?
Chances are he did minimal on those occasions, because they don’t mean much if anything for him. And if that’s the case, of course he wouldn’t be excited about a 1 year dating anniversary.
And why wasn’t your reply when he said it’s too expensive that you would pay?
He’s an awful person. I know you feel attached to him, but please move on.
He not a good bf
Leave.
Yes it’s difficult, but your mental, emotional and physical health is important. And you need to put yourself first.
Giiiirl, if writing that TLDR didn’t give you all the reason you need to leave idk what we could possibly tell you that would break through to you.
He sounds like kid.. you’re really beautiful no need to be insecure?
Trust me, I get that – all of ours were very much planned and wanted pregnancies.
And your wording is much better than mine – that is exactly what I meant to say.
OP, you have to do what is right for you and you alone here. If you feel stable enough to raise the child then move forward with that.
So you’ve been together a year. Plenty of time to see how he deals with similar events.
So what did he do for your birthday? What did he do for Valentine’s Day, what did he do for Christmas? What did he want to do for his birthday?
How has he shown his appreciation for the things that you did on those days?
Chances are he did minimal on those occasions, because they don’t mean much if anything for him. And if that’s the case, of course he wouldn’t be excited about a 1 year dating anniversary.
And why wasn’t your reply when he said it’s too expensive that you would pay?