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Bad marriage doesn’t not mean he got to cheat.
Please tell me where I've once said otherwise. I've frankly been saying that he was wrong for cheating regardless. I can't ring the bell a thousands times just because you don't want to hear it. The only right thing out of all of it is that their marriage ended.
Mum will unfortunately have to see that later, hopefully, because of the manner in which it ended but their marriage wasn't good. He was wrong to cheat. Both can exist.
Thank you for the comment and advice, definitely should have been more open about this. We typically communicate well but I’ve been bottling this up and it’s not fair to either of us
You don’t have to let people talk you into doing something you don’t like. If the idea of being aggressive and rough makes you uncomfortable, then you don’t have to do it. If your gf can’t accept your boundaries then she’s probably not the one for you.
It might almost be worth it to move, with the kids, to a new state that doesn't have those horrible laws, for a “better job”, for 6 months, to establish residence and jurisdiction there.
Seriously, the state I live in, the laws were so bad against dads that women used to do exactly that at the time that I first started going through my own custody fight for my kiddo. Women would move here, with their kids, on some excuse or another that was enough to keep their husbands from filing in their home state, then file for divorce/custody. Flip the script, do the same. This woman is using you and neglecting your kids, and it sounds like she's doing it largely due to the influence end encouragement of her family. It doesn't improve from here unless you get them away from those people anyway.
Bad marriage doesn’t not mean he got to cheat.
Please tell me where I've once said otherwise. I've frankly been saying that he was wrong for cheating regardless. I can't ring the bell a thousands times just because you don't want to hear it. The only right thing out of all of it is that their marriage ended.
Mum will unfortunately have to see that later, hopefully, because of the manner in which it ended but their marriage wasn't good. He was wrong to cheat. Both can exist.
Thank you for the comment and advice, definitely should have been more open about this. We typically communicate well but I’ve been bottling this up and it’s not fair to either of us
You don’t have to let people talk you into doing something you don’t like. If the idea of being aggressive and rough makes you uncomfortable, then you don’t have to do it. If your gf can’t accept your boundaries then she’s probably not the one for you.
Ugh thank you. I feel so lost
It might almost be worth it to move, with the kids, to a new state that doesn't have those horrible laws, for a “better job”, for 6 months, to establish residence and jurisdiction there.
Seriously, the state I live in, the laws were so bad against dads that women used to do exactly that at the time that I first started going through my own custody fight for my kiddo. Women would move here, with their kids, on some excuse or another that was enough to keep their husbands from filing in their home state, then file for divorce/custody. Flip the script, do the same. This woman is using you and neglecting your kids, and it sounds like she's doing it largely due to the influence end encouragement of her family. It doesn't improve from here unless you get them away from those people anyway.
They’re 21, why waste your time on a clown if you don’t want to be in the circus