I had to Google ad hominem but you’re right and I have spent a lot of time trying to express that I don’t like it when it feels like the criticising is aimed at me vs the situation / positions we are taking
I'm in my 40s, and it turns out that the older you get, the harder it can be to make new friends, if you don't have a common place to start (eg, I've had success in making new friends, due to a club I attend).
Don't be dismayed by your GF not making many new friends, in adulthood. A lot of people have the same worry.
I had to Google ad hominem but you’re right and I have spent a lot of time trying to express that I don’t like it when it feels like the criticising is aimed at me vs the situation / positions we are taking
I'm in my 40s, and it turns out that the older you get, the harder it can be to make new friends, if you don't have a common place to start (eg, I've had success in making new friends, due to a club I attend).
Don't be dismayed by your GF not making many new friends, in adulthood. A lot of people have the same worry.
Please refer to my comment for what my friends did
I actually think he was a bit pissed that the therapist ended the session because he was hoping to eavesdrop. Either way, he’s a bad person.