12 thoughts on “Libbyloveheart online sex cams for YOU!”
Idk if I should go for the guy (I have confused feelings for him at this point but I wouldn't mind dating him) just so I could be in the same rela as my friend.
Wtf are you doing here OP?
Are you even poly?
Who do you even like here?
You need to figure you out before you try to jump into a poly relationship because of your confused feelings of just “wanting to be in a relationship with my friend”
She's playing you. You deserve better. Don't sell yourself short for someone with so little respect for you. I get you love her, and it's painful, but she's straight up playing you.
Unfortunately the age gap red flags come in when he's trying to convince you that his behaviors are okay even if you arent okay with them. In toxic cases they often try to use your inexperience against you because you have a lot less real world relationship experience than someone might at his own age and they are less like;y to be confused and tolerant of his actions.
I mean, I feel like I do know him pretty well. Obviously there’s still a lot to get to know.
I just don’t know how to bring up this issue without making it seem like I’m crazy for looking at her profile. The argument was just brief. I mentioned it annoyed me and then we dropped the issue.
Ask her, not me. Since she is stemming from a fear of you being irresponsible, ask her what it would take for her to know you are responsible. Listen to what she says.
Or, talk with your boyfriend or friend group in private and see if you guys can set yourselves up to move out into an apartment or somewhere else. There, you'll have no curfew to worry about, save for the one you set yourself.
” When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time”
he has made it clear he has commitment issues and I am going to assume he isn't in therapy working on them. and somehow the second time around he convinced you that all that would just magically get better.
now you are here upset that you have been willingly acting like a gf without the actual perks and label and are upset that he is just acting like he has always acted. It's only mixed signals if you ignored the flags he's been waving at you.
and here you are asking a bunch of strangers if you should continue with a friends with benefits situation even though you are unhappy and he hasn't actually shown you he wants to do the work to figure his stuff out. Maybe you should also look into counseling to help you understand your choices better. good luck.
Last time I tried to have a conversation about it, he threatened to kill himself
This is a classic emotional manipulation. You are not responsible for someone else's actions, and you cannot make or break someone's life. Leave him, and if he threatens this again, then contact emergency services and tell them he is in danger of taking his own life.
My abusive ex always threatened to kill himself if I left him. Guess what, it's been years and the bastard is still alive.
Idk if I should go for the guy (I have confused feelings for him at this point but I wouldn't mind dating him) just so I could be in the same rela as my friend.
Wtf are you doing here OP?
Are you even poly?
Who do you even like here?
You need to figure you out before you try to jump into a poly relationship because of your confused feelings of just “wanting to be in a relationship with my friend”
Like what?
She's playing you. You deserve better. Don't sell yourself short for someone with so little respect for you. I get you love her, and it's painful, but she's straight up playing you.
I would suggest deleting it now then, and anything of yours that she has should be deleted as well.
Unfortunately the age gap red flags come in when he's trying to convince you that his behaviors are okay even if you arent okay with them. In toxic cases they often try to use your inexperience against you because you have a lot less real world relationship experience than someone might at his own age and they are less like;y to be confused and tolerant of his actions.
Chuck? Is that you?
I mean, I feel like I do know him pretty well. Obviously there’s still a lot to get to know.
I just don’t know how to bring up this issue without making it seem like I’m crazy for looking at her profile. The argument was just brief. I mentioned it annoyed me and then we dropped the issue.
I would hit her with theft charges.
Ask her, not me. Since she is stemming from a fear of you being irresponsible, ask her what it would take for her to know you are responsible. Listen to what she says.
Or, talk with your boyfriend or friend group in private and see if you guys can set yourselves up to move out into an apartment or somewhere else. There, you'll have no curfew to worry about, save for the one you set yourself.
I would not have given him a second chance.
” When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time”
he has made it clear he has commitment issues and I am going to assume he isn't in therapy working on them. and somehow the second time around he convinced you that all that would just magically get better.
now you are here upset that you have been willingly acting like a gf without the actual perks and label and are upset that he is just acting like he has always acted. It's only mixed signals if you ignored the flags he's been waving at you.
and here you are asking a bunch of strangers if you should continue with a friends with benefits situation even though you are unhappy and he hasn't actually shown you he wants to do the work to figure his stuff out. Maybe you should also look into counseling to help you understand your choices better. good luck.
He's been manipulating you this entire time.
Last time I tried to have a conversation about it, he threatened to kill himself
This is a classic emotional manipulation. You are not responsible for someone else's actions, and you cannot make or break someone's life. Leave him, and if he threatens this again, then contact emergency services and tell them he is in danger of taking his own life.
My abusive ex always threatened to kill himself if I left him. Guess what, it's been years and the bastard is still alive.
You can’t force someone to be with you. She’s recognised the age gap is too much and you have to respect that.
You like him except for the fact that he insults you? Girl… dump his ass.