Wow ! Yes I did learn of this statistic recently..that is why I was trying to figure out if what I experienced was truly strangulation / assult. I know it was deep down because he was angry with me the whole night …I was confused because he didn’t hold me for even 10 seconds but..made me doubt my reality but I know I can’t go back
Hey guys I just want to thank you all for the support and suggestions. You are all incredible ❤️ I'm sorry for the late update… Nothing much happened to these period of time due to when I visited my hometown I got H1N1 so I spent my time sick. But there are some news over this so I thought I should share. Well after the “incident” I've been avoiding any interaction with my friend and her family, because of how discomfort this brings me. I think my traumatic experience stresses me out so much so, that I cannot be around them. I talked to my cousin-one of the most important people that support me and love me unconditionally, and knows everyone in my story. He has a wife (which is one of my most cherished childhood friends and is also a friend to the couple) and the have 4 children together. They're very happily married and I love them. So i found the courage to tell him via phone what happened, since he is traveling due to his work, and he was so shocked. He told me that he heard that the “husband” has started using soft drugs and maybe that's why he did what he did. Some mutual friends, told him (before I even said my story) that he used to do these once he was young, but they were altering him to a very bad version of the nice guy we know. My cousin promised me he doesn't excuse any of these behaviours, but just brainstorming to try and figure out the situation, and I believe him. He also suggested not to tell anything to my friend without any proofs, just in case she flips out on me. Since he is not at our hometown, to be very careful when I visit and once he comes we'll figure it out together. I will follow his advice for now, because I really feel uneasy. And one last thing, guys I didn't go to therapy for this and I'm struggling to keep my cool. Nobody seems to understand the pressure I'm dealing with, so if you have any problem like me please go to a therapist to help you. It doesn't go away on it's own.
Cut her off. She’s 31 and literally acts like an 18 year old.
Wow ! Yes I did learn of this statistic recently..that is why I was trying to figure out if what I experienced was truly strangulation / assult. I know it was deep down because he was angry with me the whole night …I was confused because he didn’t hold me for even 10 seconds but..made me doubt my reality but I know I can’t go back
This is a dumb fuckin idea
OMG Syrian and Swedish
If your gentleman is quite traditional you better be asking a lot of questions about what is expected of you in the relationship
Hey guys I just want to thank you all for the support and suggestions. You are all incredible ❤️ I'm sorry for the late update… Nothing much happened to these period of time due to when I visited my hometown I got H1N1 so I spent my time sick. But there are some news over this so I thought I should share. Well after the “incident” I've been avoiding any interaction with my friend and her family, because of how discomfort this brings me. I think my traumatic experience stresses me out so much so, that I cannot be around them. I talked to my cousin-one of the most important people that support me and love me unconditionally, and knows everyone in my story. He has a wife (which is one of my most cherished childhood friends and is also a friend to the couple) and the have 4 children together. They're very happily married and I love them. So i found the courage to tell him via phone what happened, since he is traveling due to his work, and he was so shocked. He told me that he heard that the “husband” has started using soft drugs and maybe that's why he did what he did. Some mutual friends, told him (before I even said my story) that he used to do these once he was young, but they were altering him to a very bad version of the nice guy we know. My cousin promised me he doesn't excuse any of these behaviours, but just brainstorming to try and figure out the situation, and I believe him. He also suggested not to tell anything to my friend without any proofs, just in case she flips out on me. Since he is not at our hometown, to be very careful when I visit and once he comes we'll figure it out together. I will follow his advice for now, because I really feel uneasy. And one last thing, guys I didn't go to therapy for this and I'm struggling to keep my cool. Nobody seems to understand the pressure I'm dealing with, so if you have any problem like me please go to a therapist to help you. It doesn't go away on it's own.