Honey, I think this question should be asked at a trans sub specifically.
Yes, he lied to you about a really big thing.
Yes, you are allowed to have your preferences.
However, that's a salvageable situation if you want it to be. You seem to love and cherish your boyfriend, and you seem open to pursue the relationship.
If that's something you want, ask trans people how to navigate this situation better.
The people here are just going to tell you to break up.
I mean, you care enough to be fuming about it lol.
Honey, I think this question should be asked at a trans sub specifically.
Yes, he lied to you about a really big thing.
Yes, you are allowed to have your preferences.
However, that's a salvageable situation if you want it to be. You seem to love and cherish your boyfriend, and you seem open to pursue the relationship.
If that's something you want, ask trans people how to navigate this situation better.
The people here are just going to tell you to break up.
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So before you found out that the woman you cheated with was pregnant you never planned on telling your girlfriend you cheated? Classy.
You're right in thinking this will end your relationship because you ended it the second you slept with someone else.
You're 30 years old, start acting like it.
The rest of Reddit can berate you about the age gaps.
I like to think that people go through my posting history because they are having trouble sleeping at night.
Most of these are so cringe…