I'm sma pretty independent woman with very liberal ideas and I still change my appearance to please my husband. I've bought clothes I specifically thought that he (and I) would like, I've worn different hair styles cuz I thought he'd like it, etc.
I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to please your spouse, so long as you aren't pressured, and you want to do it too.
Do NOT let him say it's because he's “being nice” I dated a guy like that and let me tell you, it was not bc he was “so nice” it was him basking in the attention constantly. Let him know that this is not about being nice/being mean this is about RESPECT. He needs to be firm with other women and he can still be polite about it.
Speaking from personal experience, you can absolutely have a great time without orgasm. You can be an Olympic gymnast and it still won’t matter because this is his problem. It can be a mental or physical issue and you don’t want to pressure him by repeatedly asking.
Honestly, what worked for me was taking a Cialis to help me get my first orgasm and a few more after. The pills really helped me focus and my girl was extremely patient and supportive while I figured it out. That really helped me with my confidence to the point where I don’t need pills anymore. I just needed good experiences to help me figure out what I need to feel satisfied. Number one on my list is an understanding and loving partner.
Even without pills, focus on the journey and the sensations and being relaxed. If your partner taps out before he finishes don’t worry about it. Sex is great even if you’re stuck in the middle chapter. Now if he can’t get started at all encourage him to get a little help. You can get Cialis delivered off the internet for 20-30 bucks and it’s a life changer.
I'm sma pretty independent woman with very liberal ideas and I still change my appearance to please my husband. I've bought clothes I specifically thought that he (and I) would like, I've worn different hair styles cuz I thought he'd like it, etc.
I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to please your spouse, so long as you aren't pressured, and you want to do it too.
Yes. You should probably ease up on the drinking
Do NOT let him say it's because he's “being nice” I dated a guy like that and let me tell you, it was not bc he was “so nice” it was him basking in the attention constantly. Let him know that this is not about being nice/being mean this is about RESPECT. He needs to be firm with other women and he can still be polite about it.
I also thought cheating, he’s lined up his next girlfriend and was planning to leave. How he went forward with all this IVF shit ….
Speaking from personal experience, you can absolutely have a great time without orgasm. You can be an Olympic gymnast and it still won’t matter because this is his problem. It can be a mental or physical issue and you don’t want to pressure him by repeatedly asking.
Honestly, what worked for me was taking a Cialis to help me get my first orgasm and a few more after. The pills really helped me focus and my girl was extremely patient and supportive while I figured it out. That really helped me with my confidence to the point where I don’t need pills anymore. I just needed good experiences to help me figure out what I need to feel satisfied. Number one on my list is an understanding and loving partner.
Even without pills, focus on the journey and the sensations and being relaxed. If your partner taps out before he finishes don’t worry about it. Sex is great even if you’re stuck in the middle chapter. Now if he can’t get started at all encourage him to get a little help. You can get Cialis delivered off the internet for 20-30 bucks and it’s a life changer.
Trust me the elevator in my building is not faster. It stops about 5 times before reaching my floor and then about 5 times before reaching down.
Her initial rudeness was having unannounced (or approved of) guests, particularly at that moment of the day.
I'd also argue he wasn't actually rude, he was just 'not overly polite'. She on the other hand was also not rude, she was abusive.