OP.. this is fucking insane. A close male relative is sneaking into you and your sisters room and ejaculating on you two?!
I know people are telling you to get a camera or a door alarm.. but then you have to be sitting bait while one of your brothers or father, attempts again?!
I don’t know what the answer is for both sisters here. Calling a family meeting won’t do anything, because who the hell is going to admit this? And how the hell can mom still gaslight here?! MAYBE I could understand if it happened once, it’s pretty unbelievable.. but if BOTH daughters in the span of a month tell me this.. you know anyone reasonable would be trying to get to the bottom of it.
He’s not sad because he’s in a honeymoon stage with another girl. He doesn’t want to be with you because of that (he might want you back after the honeymoon stage inevitably ends, but no, please don’t), but he wants to continue getting sex and attention because he’s a man. He wants you as his comfort zone and this other girl as something new and exciting. He’s using the both of you and is a jerk. I was in a situation, living with a guy who I found cheating, no family of mine around. I just kept my head down, kept the house clean and did my part, and tried my best to be invisible until I could get out. It was very emotionally taxing. But I was able to leave. One thing I did to get over him was to write in my phone all the crappy, shady stuff he said and did. Then, on days I was getting a little too friendly with him, I’d go back and read it. It’d bring me back to reality.
Maybe get some therapy and leave her alone meanwhile. Work on you for a while.
Yes to push her off of me, that’s all
OP.. this is fucking insane. A close male relative is sneaking into you and your sisters room and ejaculating on you two?!
I know people are telling you to get a camera or a door alarm.. but then you have to be sitting bait while one of your brothers or father, attempts again?!
I don’t know what the answer is for both sisters here. Calling a family meeting won’t do anything, because who the hell is going to admit this? And how the hell can mom still gaslight here?! MAYBE I could understand if it happened once, it’s pretty unbelievable.. but if BOTH daughters in the span of a month tell me this.. you know anyone reasonable would be trying to get to the bottom of it.
Tell him to stop watching porn. It's a free cure.
He’s not sad because he’s in a honeymoon stage with another girl. He doesn’t want to be with you because of that (he might want you back after the honeymoon stage inevitably ends, but no, please don’t), but he wants to continue getting sex and attention because he’s a man. He wants you as his comfort zone and this other girl as something new and exciting. He’s using the both of you and is a jerk. I was in a situation, living with a guy who I found cheating, no family of mine around. I just kept my head down, kept the house clean and did my part, and tried my best to be invisible until I could get out. It was very emotionally taxing. But I was able to leave. One thing I did to get over him was to write in my phone all the crappy, shady stuff he said and did. Then, on days I was getting a little too friendly with him, I’d go back and read it. It’d bring me back to reality.
What’s insane is encouraging someone to keep a pretty big secret from their partner.