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Thing is he doesn’t talk to her outside of work, he’s pretty open with his phone and doesn’t hide it from me so I feel like I would’ve seen something if he’d been messaging her. I just feel very weird about the whole thing, I understand not wanting to make things awkward at work but it’s making me feel like he’s prioritising their friendship over the relationship because I don’t know if he will say anything to her.
I did say that to him lol and he said he wouldn’t like it and that a friend wouldn’t be disrespectful of their friends relationship the way is she is. He did seem like he knew it was wrong and was apologetic, but I’m worried I’m being played.
It’s honestly taking all my willpower not to message the colleague myself haha
You've been having an emotional affair and hiding it from your husband. Is this the life you choose to lead? You already feel guilty. Imagine the devastation your husband will feel when he finds out.
Three times? Sounds to me like he wants to initiate sex and assumes that you not wearing a bra is a hint you’d like it too. He probably also thinks that he can get you in the mood by grazing your nipples. You need to sit him down again and explicitly tell him that that’s not how any of this works. Also, so that he won’t feel tempted to do it again (because when a guy is horny… he tends to “forget”), you should probably ask him to not put his hand on your upper arm altogether in those moments.
People sacrifice to make partners happy all the time, when it’s THEIR idea, it’s a beautiful thing. When their partner is the one pushing it on them, ignoring viable compromises that respect both sides, then it’s controlling and toxic, like what you’re doing.
There's some great advice here, but I'll also add: what can she do to decrease your collective workload? Are there things that you're doing that she could manage? For example, paying bills, scheduling vet appointments, managing contractors, ordering groceries, placing an online drug store order, getting DoorDash once or twice per week, etc.? While it's important to recognize her physical limitations, there's a lot of random life stuff that needs to get done that she could manage with disabilities.
You need more of a support system. She needs more of a support system. Even if we removed the option of you walking away, what would happen to her if something happened to you? You both need to look into social services and charities so everything isn't on you. See if you qualify for a caregiver, even if it's just someone for her to talk to. She could benefit from group therapy. This isn't sustainable for either of you.
I have been hit on multiple times while wearing a whole ass wedding ring. “The boyfriend card” does not exist. Especially if the person you're talking to has a gf so cheating clearly doesn't bother him.
Just because you have a rape fantasy doesn't mean you deserve to be raped. Just because you didn't struggle doesn't make it not rape. You were exhausted and you didn't get a say whether he stopped or not, and he wasn't stopping. You were definitely being raped. I'm sorry he did this to you. Rape can feel good physically, but that doesn't make it not rape either. If he remembers what happened he should be apologizing a lot not acting normal. Hell, even if he thought at the time it wasn't rape, he should be checking in on you now that he's clearheaded.
Was your sister contributing to any bills? The way I see it, your daughter was basically supporting the entire family because you only work part time….and why is that? Why didn’t your sister get ANY job and allow this to drag on for months? Sounds like you both are leaching off your daughter and I’m glad she stood up for herself against your idiotic demands, how dare you demand she get rid of her car?? You just destroyed your relationship with your daughter.
Thing is he doesn’t talk to her outside of work, he’s pretty open with his phone and doesn’t hide it from me so I feel like I would’ve seen something if he’d been messaging her. I just feel very weird about the whole thing, I understand not wanting to make things awkward at work but it’s making me feel like he’s prioritising their friendship over the relationship because I don’t know if he will say anything to her.
I did say that to him lol and he said he wouldn’t like it and that a friend wouldn’t be disrespectful of their friends relationship the way is she is. He did seem like he knew it was wrong and was apologetic, but I’m worried I’m being played.
It’s honestly taking all my willpower not to message the colleague myself haha
Where do you pull the statement that his worst is dtilk better than my best?
You might want to check out r/limerence
You've been having an emotional affair and hiding it from your husband. Is this the life you choose to lead? You already feel guilty. Imagine the devastation your husband will feel when he finds out.
I believe take a break and think calmly about it,then decide
Three times? Sounds to me like he wants to initiate sex and assumes that you not wearing a bra is a hint you’d like it too. He probably also thinks that he can get you in the mood by grazing your nipples. You need to sit him down again and explicitly tell him that that’s not how any of this works. Also, so that he won’t feel tempted to do it again (because when a guy is horny… he tends to “forget”), you should probably ask him to not put his hand on your upper arm altogether in those moments.
Leave this “man”. But do it in a safe way just in case because this turd is having his own flag parade
You really need to move on and focus on yourself, in time you'll realize this was for the best.
Other people at the table are footing their own bill.
People sacrifice to make partners happy all the time, when it’s THEIR idea, it’s a beautiful thing. When their partner is the one pushing it on them, ignoring viable compromises that respect both sides, then it’s controlling and toxic, like what you’re doing.
There's some great advice here, but I'll also add: what can she do to decrease your collective workload? Are there things that you're doing that she could manage? For example, paying bills, scheduling vet appointments, managing contractors, ordering groceries, placing an online drug store order, getting DoorDash once or twice per week, etc.? While it's important to recognize her physical limitations, there's a lot of random life stuff that needs to get done that she could manage with disabilities.
You need more of a support system. She needs more of a support system. Even if we removed the option of you walking away, what would happen to her if something happened to you? You both need to look into social services and charities so everything isn't on you. See if you qualify for a caregiver, even if it's just someone for her to talk to. She could benefit from group therapy. This isn't sustainable for either of you.
I have been hit on multiple times while wearing a whole ass wedding ring. “The boyfriend card” does not exist. Especially if the person you're talking to has a gf so cheating clearly doesn't bother him.
Just because you have a rape fantasy doesn't mean you deserve to be raped. Just because you didn't struggle doesn't make it not rape. You were exhausted and you didn't get a say whether he stopped or not, and he wasn't stopping. You were definitely being raped. I'm sorry he did this to you. Rape can feel good physically, but that doesn't make it not rape either. If he remembers what happened he should be apologizing a lot not acting normal. Hell, even if he thought at the time it wasn't rape, he should be checking in on you now that he's clearheaded.
Was your sister contributing to any bills? The way I see it, your daughter was basically supporting the entire family because you only work part time….and why is that? Why didn’t your sister get ANY job and allow this to drag on for months? Sounds like you both are leaching off your daughter and I’m glad she stood up for herself against your idiotic demands, how dare you demand she get rid of her car?? You just destroyed your relationship with your daughter.
I'm not one for breaking privacy but I would do everything illegal to copy all of this data.
He has CP. It didn't just start, he researched it and found an outlet.
This is so disturbing and it's involved you at this point.