Because evidence is helpful even in divorce. If you can prove heโs been paying this girl money then OP might be able to claim more alimony since heโs already been paying a side piece for who knows how long.
Unless they had a prenup signed then evidence is gonna be very helpful if it turns out they are divorcing.
Maybe cut out some or all of the alcohol consumption and see how you two get along just hanging out, talking and getting to know each other. Then it will either be evident what she's hoping for or you'll know whether she's someone you want to pursue.
Nothing against drinking in its place, but maybe a night without could help with that confusion.
First things first. Talk to your DAD about this. Ask if he remembers anything weird about your bf from back then and discuss how to talk to your mom about it.
After reading your replies to other folks..
Pull you head out of your ass. Ofc you don't pay her phone bill. Jfc.
Because evidence is helpful even in divorce. If you can prove heโs been paying this girl money then OP might be able to claim more alimony since heโs already been paying a side piece for who knows how long.
Unless they had a prenup signed then evidence is gonna be very helpful if it turns out they are divorcing.
Maybe cut out some or all of the alcohol consumption and see how you two get along just hanging out, talking and getting to know each other. Then it will either be evident what she's hoping for or you'll know whether she's someone you want to pursue.
Nothing against drinking in its place, but maybe a night without could help with that confusion.
First things first. Talk to your DAD about this. Ask if he remembers anything weird about your bf from back then and discuss how to talk to your mom about it.
Talk to both parents before making a decision!
Updateme!