First thing is you can talk to her before opportunities for gifts. I hate surprise gifts, cause they usually suck so I prefer to be simply asked what to get. The same goes the other way I usually choose to ask the target directly. I mean if you tell her beforehand she takes a piss you won;t have anydoubts about her stance.
Two things talk to her about itin direct words how it makes you feel (like she isn't serious about you two, by contrast to how she cares about gifts for her family). Tell her also that just, because she hasn't thought about that's fine, because she can still buy something and give to you now. That's a nice approach, because it eliminates the question whether she simply doesn't care to buy you a gift or missed it.
You need to tell her. You don't need to show her right away, but you do need to explain there is a reason why you're not showing yourself, and that reason is rooted in deep trauma and abuse.
If she cannot accept that, you're better off without. if she can, you have gained a supporter on your road to recovery.
The issue isn't her insecurity. She wants more sex than what they're currently having and he's using his sexual energy on wanking. As soon as your masturbation habits start to interfere with your sexual relationship with your partner it's a problem.
Yes! And the guy in that post also didn’t get it at all and kept saying she MUST still be in love with her ex and there was no other reason she could be reacting poorly. It’s a lost cause.
Your husband is either purposefully doing this so you'll sit on them or he's a lazy asshole. I assume you have a coffee table or side tables nearby. If not, get one for beside the couch. His drinks do not belong in the couch or on it!!!
Explosive anger over something so small in a person his age is an intimidation and manipulation tactic designed to make you fearful of bring up that topic again or any other topic the might upset him. It's under the umbrella of abusive behavior because is causes fear and uncertainty in you.
Ask him to spell out what “healthy” means.
First thing is you can talk to her before opportunities for gifts. I hate surprise gifts, cause they usually suck so I prefer to be simply asked what to get. The same goes the other way I usually choose to ask the target directly. I mean if you tell her beforehand she takes a piss you won;t have anydoubts about her stance.
Two things talk to her about itin direct words how it makes you feel (like she isn't serious about you two, by contrast to how she cares about gifts for her family). Tell her also that just, because she hasn't thought about that's fine, because she can still buy something and give to you now. That's a nice approach, because it eliminates the question whether she simply doesn't care to buy you a gift or missed it.
You need to tell her. You don't need to show her right away, but you do need to explain there is a reason why you're not showing yourself, and that reason is rooted in deep trauma and abuse.
If she cannot accept that, you're better off without. if she can, you have gained a supporter on your road to recovery.
The issue isn't her insecurity. She wants more sex than what they're currently having and he's using his sexual energy on wanking. As soon as your masturbation habits start to interfere with your sexual relationship with your partner it's a problem.
Yes! And the guy in that post also didn’t get it at all and kept saying she MUST still be in love with her ex and there was no other reason she could be reacting poorly. It’s a lost cause.
Your husband is either purposefully doing this so you'll sit on them or he's a lazy asshole. I assume you have a coffee table or side tables nearby. If not, get one for beside the couch. His drinks do not belong in the couch or on it!!!
lmao who was paying the phone bill on the phone she had before she broke it?
The physical phone was the gift, not the usage of it.
Is this phone linked to your plan or in your name in any way?
Remove three outfits, replace with two pairs of boxer briefs.
Explosive anger over something so small in a person his age is an intimidation and manipulation tactic designed to make you fearful of bring up that topic again or any other topic the might upset him. It's under the umbrella of abusive behavior because is causes fear and uncertainty in you.
He was incredibly wrong for this. You didn't do anything wrong.
You deserve love and happiness. I hope this man remains alone and doesn't mess with another woman in the same way.