We were friends for a while and yeah initially I wasn’t physically attracted to him. But then feelings grew and then he became super attractive to me. 20 years on and he’s still super attractive to me and I still wanna jump his bones. ??
She met you when you were 19… how much “abuser history” does she think you could have possibly racked up by age 19? Or that there would be a background searchable record of it if you did?
If she has this little trust in you after 6 years of knowing one another and 5 years of dating, I don't see that this relationship has anywhere to go. She and her friend can be single together, but I bet if you leave, she's going to call your refusal to participate in her nonsense proof that you were an abuser and pretend to be a victim like her friend.
Well OP, this is one of those rare fucked either way situations. Pardon the language and best of luck!
We were friends for a while and yeah initially I wasn’t physically attracted to him. But then feelings grew and then he became super attractive to me. 20 years on and he’s still super attractive to me and I still wanna jump his bones. ??
She met you when you were 19… how much “abuser history” does she think you could have possibly racked up by age 19? Or that there would be a background searchable record of it if you did?
If she has this little trust in you after 6 years of knowing one another and 5 years of dating, I don't see that this relationship has anywhere to go. She and her friend can be single together, but I bet if you leave, she's going to call your refusal to participate in her nonsense proof that you were an abuser and pretend to be a victim like her friend.