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I think that you should try to stay together. You could try to find a place for your mom to online near you and your partner, so you aren’t just leaving her, and you could find a house/apartment with your partner for the next few years after you finish up your masters. You could probably stay there if your PH.D. research doesn’t require you to be in N.A., and just go to a European university for it. If you need to be back in America for your research, your partner could look for a job there, and you two could probably find a way to stay together. I think you have a pretty good shot if you plan it out well.
If people with mental health issues started to claim responsibility for their actions instead of blaming their issues, I think their mental health would improve drastically
Yeah, you’re right. I know that in my mind I don’t see an issue with what I did, I’ve just tried hot to see from his point of view but sometimes I think I can be too understanding where it isn’t really deserved.
My main issue with this was with him bringing it up in front of my friend on NYE (the girl who’s apartment i stayed at) and it was so uncomfortable. She kept apologising to him too for inviting me over after the bar and I know that she feels bad which is ridiculous as it was my decision
For your information I have 2 dogs and a cat and I’d take them over anyone coming into my life at the drop of a hat.
OPs cat is the problem in this equation, so OP has to choose, her cat, or staying with her BF. Personally as mentioned above I’d choose the cat.
Keeping the cats together just so OP and her bf can live together will result in problems with the cats, possible vet visits after OPs cat attacks the other ones etc. so that is not an option.
You seem convinced that you're going to get a lecture from them regardless, so I'm going to tell you a really easy way to avoid a lecture from them once and forever.
Say, “This topic is not up for discussion. Let's move on.” If that doesn't work – and it won't, at least not the first few times:
1) You hang up the phone.
2) You end the video call.
3) You walk out of their house.
Lather, rinse, repeat until they get it, and if they don't, consider going from low contact to no contact. You don't have to take abuse. You're a grown woman with a career, a husband and soon you'll have a baby. Congratulations and take care.
Leaving -> them unsupervised. Did you doze off halfway through the sentence? Then you also missed the bit where I said I'd understand if he dozed off. But he didn't doze off… he chose to go and lay in his bed. You must not have children if you think this is even remotely OK… Do you realise these children could've been seriously hurt under his (lack of) supervision? And then what? Injured kid? Dead kid? Social services take the kids?
I get being tired. If you're too tired – fine! But then say you can't look after the children. If you decide to look after them anyways, the least you can do is TRY to stay awake. Going to bed is the opposite of that.
I think that you should try to stay together. You could try to find a place for your mom to online near you and your partner, so you aren’t just leaving her, and you could find a house/apartment with your partner for the next few years after you finish up your masters. You could probably stay there if your PH.D. research doesn’t require you to be in N.A., and just go to a European university for it. If you need to be back in America for your research, your partner could look for a job there, and you two could probably find a way to stay together. I think you have a pretty good shot if you plan it out well.
If people with mental health issues started to claim responsibility for their actions instead of blaming their issues, I think their mental health would improve drastically
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Yeah, you’re right. I know that in my mind I don’t see an issue with what I did, I’ve just tried hot to see from his point of view but sometimes I think I can be too understanding where it isn’t really deserved.
My main issue with this was with him bringing it up in front of my friend on NYE (the girl who’s apartment i stayed at) and it was so uncomfortable. She kept apologising to him too for inviting me over after the bar and I know that she feels bad which is ridiculous as it was my decision
2 years. You're 21. This ain't it.
Where did I say they were disposable?
For your information I have 2 dogs and a cat and I’d take them over anyone coming into my life at the drop of a hat.
OPs cat is the problem in this equation, so OP has to choose, her cat, or staying with her BF. Personally as mentioned above I’d choose the cat.
Keeping the cats together just so OP and her bf can live together will result in problems with the cats, possible vet visits after OPs cat attacks the other ones etc. so that is not an option.
So how about you fuck off.
He says no, but I KNOW he would feel wild. He says “but I would never go through your followers, so id never see”.
You seem convinced that you're going to get a lecture from them regardless, so I'm going to tell you a really easy way to avoid a lecture from them once and forever.
Say, “This topic is not up for discussion. Let's move on.” If that doesn't work – and it won't, at least not the first few times:
1) You hang up the phone.
2) You end the video call.
3) You walk out of their house.
Lather, rinse, repeat until they get it, and if they don't, consider going from low contact to no contact. You don't have to take abuse. You're a grown woman with a career, a husband and soon you'll have a baby. Congratulations and take care.
Leaving -> them unsupervised. Did you doze off halfway through the sentence? Then you also missed the bit where I said I'd understand if he dozed off. But he didn't doze off… he chose to go and lay in his bed. You must not have children if you think this is even remotely OK… Do you realise these children could've been seriously hurt under his (lack of) supervision? And then what? Injured kid? Dead kid? Social services take the kids?
I get being tired. If you're too tired – fine! But then say you can't look after the children. If you decide to look after them anyways, the least you can do is TRY to stay awake. Going to bed is the opposite of that.