Why didn't you just break up with him before you decided to hook up with someone on Tinder… I mean it's not like you just fell into the app. You made a concious choice to cheat. What are you asking here ? Break up with the guy he deserves better.
It's true that if things progress too fast it might be a bad sign, but it also might not. Plenty of people who just kind of know from the beginning that they fit well. If you're both comfortable with the pace, then why is it anyone's business to tell you otherwise?
I feel like it's fine to be together a lot and talk about deep feelings right from the start. Just be careful making semi-permanent arrangements too fast. Telling the other person you love them after 3 weeks is fine if that's what you feel.
I handfasted with my last partner at a local river side park, and we had potluck in lieu of gifts. My dear friend made us a beautiful cake, just a red velvet cake from scratch with real flowers on it.
It was not at all expensive. It remains one of my happiest memories. My youngest wore a thrift store princess dress, I wore a bridesmaid dress from my sister's (expensive) wedding. My eldest got in a wand battle with his uncle with sticks the found on the ground.
We read each other poetry. Our loved ones came up one by one and gave us wishes or charges (“give as much love to the world as you have been given together” is one of my favorites).
My sister had a beautiful wedding – but my day was beautiful too.
If your partner is so insecure he is threatening to break up with you over this, I would let him. That kind of insecurity is something he needs to work on internally, and the hypocritical way he controls you (or tries to) is unhealthy. Boy, bye.
Why didn't you just break up with him before you decided to hook up with someone on Tinder… I mean it's not like you just fell into the app. You made a concious choice to cheat. What are you asking here ? Break up with the guy he deserves better.
Tell him you don't date anyone over 33 and see how he reacts
Ooo this is a good point. If he thought she was 24 and was asking her to be exclusive just like that? Oh I get bad vibes from that.
Break up and report him to police.
It's true that if things progress too fast it might be a bad sign, but it also might not. Plenty of people who just kind of know from the beginning that they fit well. If you're both comfortable with the pace, then why is it anyone's business to tell you otherwise?
I feel like it's fine to be together a lot and talk about deep feelings right from the start. Just be careful making semi-permanent arrangements too fast. Telling the other person you love them after 3 weeks is fine if that's what you feel.
I handfasted with my last partner at a local river side park, and we had potluck in lieu of gifts. My dear friend made us a beautiful cake, just a red velvet cake from scratch with real flowers on it.
It was not at all expensive. It remains one of my happiest memories. My youngest wore a thrift store princess dress, I wore a bridesmaid dress from my sister's (expensive) wedding. My eldest got in a wand battle with his uncle with sticks the found on the ground.
We read each other poetry. Our loved ones came up one by one and gave us wishes or charges (“give as much love to the world as you have been given together” is one of my favorites).
My sister had a beautiful wedding – but my day was beautiful too.
Honey… why are you letting him walk over you like this?
If your partner is so insecure he is threatening to break up with you over this, I would let him. That kind of insecurity is something he needs to work on internally, and the hypocritical way he controls you (or tries to) is unhealthy. Boy, bye.