“Why are you ganging up with your parents to put me down? What is going on with you that you think doing this is acceptable? I'm going to let you think about that for a day or two and then we'll talk further about this. But just so you know, it ends here. I will not be treated this way. If you have concerns you want to voice or address, I expect you to do it like a loving and thoughtful partner. Being mean and nasty is not okay.”
Just tell the whole story. Both /u/Rip_Dirtbag and I are asking you for the full picture and you keep dripping information and making things even more confusing.
Why were you drinking at a Christmas party at a hotel with your girlfriend when you're both underage? Were you alone, with friends, with your family, her family? What was the party for? Things are completely different if you were your gf's impromptu +1 for her father's important business party or if it was just a family meeting…
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Being bisexual is not the same as being polyamorous.
Sure, what bothers you and doesn't bother you is your own thing but you've just opened a door here that really didn't need opening. Hey, if it works out for you both then fair enough.
But I've got to ask:
“To me, women do things better than I can sexually for her.”
I think your doing all the right things now. You should definitely wait till you get started full time and see if can contribute more. It sounds like you guys are in pretty good shape so far. I think it sounds like your just feeling a little guilty you can't do more. I don't think you should move out. It sounds like your boyfriend would rather have you there more than anything else.
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“Why are you ganging up with your parents to put me down? What is going on with you that you think doing this is acceptable? I'm going to let you think about that for a day or two and then we'll talk further about this. But just so you know, it ends here. I will not be treated this way. If you have concerns you want to voice or address, I expect you to do it like a loving and thoughtful partner. Being mean and nasty is not okay.”
Just tell the whole story. Both /u/Rip_Dirtbag and I are asking you for the full picture and you keep dripping information and making things even more confusing.
Why were you drinking at a Christmas party at a hotel with your girlfriend when you're both underage? Were you alone, with friends, with your family, her family? What was the party for? Things are completely different if you were your gf's impromptu +1 for her father's important business party or if it was just a family meeting…
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Dude you already know.
Shut the shit down.
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I’ve never been shady at all towards him. I am absolutely happy in my relationship so his reaction caught me off guard
Being bisexual is not the same as being polyamorous.
Sure, what bothers you and doesn't bother you is your own thing but you've just opened a door here that really didn't need opening. Hey, if it works out for you both then fair enough.
But I've got to ask:
“To me, women do things better than I can sexually for her.”
How can that possibly end well?
If it bothers you, then don't do it. The moment his girlfriend calls, he will go running back to her.
I think your doing all the right things now. You should definitely wait till you get started full time and see if can contribute more. It sounds like you guys are in pretty good shape so far. I think it sounds like your just feeling a little guilty you can't do more. I don't think you should move out. It sounds like your boyfriend would rather have you there more than anything else.
You have nothing to gain by following her. Is it logically a big deal? Not really. But why do you need to do so?
Go out on that second date and go from there. Good luck.
Yeah it's her brother lol. I helped him cheat on an exam, he had to provide ID and shit. He's linked on his mom's FB.
I have acceptance letters from the universities. I have the login to her email and stuff like that. I have been through her passport stamps.
I found a picture of the ex-boyfriend on her friend's IG.
She's not lying in the elaborate way you imply.
Not saying you will mean too but resentment can be like cancer. Before you know it you are yelling over stupid shit and treating her terribly.
It's entirely possible he masturbated beforehand to take the edge off his hair trigger.
I really had to recheck the ages a few times because past 18 this is a bit absurd to deal with.
How is it ever appropriate to send a client heart and kissing emojis?
How often do they speak?