Oh jeez. I understand you trying to talk to her, but telling her that you don't find her attractive is brutal.
I totally agree with you that her friends are not helping the situation, because of course they will tell her that she is perfect as she is and you are the problem.
Does she want to lose weight? It is troubling to me that she won't discuss it with the therapist.
Well the “why” is rather obvious isn’t it. No point asking why or trying to “figure it out”. It is what it is. She has an ongoing affair and lied about it to be able to keep both you and him around. That’s it. Block and move on. Hopefully the next one won’t be like that.
Oh jeez. I understand you trying to talk to her, but telling her that you don't find her attractive is brutal.
I totally agree with you that her friends are not helping the situation, because of course they will tell her that she is perfect as she is and you are the problem.
Does she want to lose weight? It is troubling to me that she won't discuss it with the therapist.
No. You shouldn’t.
Well the “why” is rather obvious isn’t it. No point asking why or trying to “figure it out”. It is what it is. She has an ongoing affair and lied about it to be able to keep both you and him around. That’s it. Block and move on. Hopefully the next one won’t be like that.