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Regret is an inevitability in life when we have big decisions like this, and don't know how things will pan out. You just have to make the best decision with the information available at the time, and if it doesn't work out, accept that you wouldn't have done differently.
Only you can know which path feels more right. Based on what you've said, though, you have a special relationship. I can't see the advantage in breaking up before you've tried to make it work.
I'd certainly not prioritise the academia, as the burnout is very real. I think it's about being geographically close to your mom, or to your partner. Maybe your mom would branch out socially if she didn't have you to rely on. Plus, if your partner earns well, you can return home at short notice if something bad happens. You may regret not getting the experience of moving abroad and growing with your partner.
If you go with him, you may regret her feeling lonely, or worry about the support for her needs, but you also have to think about your long-term future.
Well you’re not straight, so just know that. It took a while to accept I was Bi. Masculinity has nothing to do with it.
He deserves to know.
But also be prepared for it to blow up in your face. Unless there's some kind of Bro Code about banding together to get revenge on petty cheaters or something.
Tbh, you’re 1000% valid on how you feel. Since y’all are in the talking stage and you find this to be a deal breaker just end things. You’ll find someone who you can share that experience with if that’s what YOU WANT. There’s still plenty of virgins at your age. But if you want to look past that then I hope the best for you guys:-)
This breaks my heart. Please don’t forget who your dad is underneath all of this, and please please please forgive him when this comes crashing down on him. He loves you very much, that will never change. But, right now he’s blinded by the pussy. Probably don’t want to think of your dad like that, but let’s be honest here.
It’s terribly sad that you’re suffering the consequences of a mid life crisis middle school fling. I am very sorry for you, I’m sorry your dad is willing to go this far to fulfill a midlife crisis void. But, he’s not alone.
You have to protect yourself first. You might have to cut them out for awhile, and that will be terribly sad. But, rest assured this relationship is not sustainable, and when it comes crashing down, kill your dad with kindness. He loves you very deeply, and you love him all the same… but right now he’s pussy whipped.
This isn’t meant to discount your feelings, you are 100% entitled to those. Just be his rock when time comes. You have the right to communicate with him and feel heard. Unfortunately, in the midst of the pussy whipped stage, you’ll likely be discount. So wait, play the long game.
He owes you an apology. We all act a fool sometimes, and we should forgive each other. But also don’t allow yourself to be emotionally abused. Once they end, then talk with him, set boundaries in your relationship, explain you want him to fulfill his desires, but you feel hurt because you love him and felt like he pushed you aside.
Good luck and stay strong
He mentioned in a comment that bio mom lives with her parents. To me this implies she doesn't have any money.
Not a jab or anything, legitimately curious- have you ever gone to couples therapy yourself? I frequently hear recommendations to go to therapy on this subreddit but having seen therapy fail multiple times as an expensive waste of time that at best didn't make things worse I'm a bit uncomfortable with how the default answer to any issue on Reddit seems to be therapy.
As someone who grew up called weird, i also struggle with making new friends or dating….
You don't even want to be seen socially with this woman. You don't want to marry her. But you're comfortable. Think about what you WANT from life. Think about the GOOD things in life that you want. Think about your aspirations.
Now Think about what she has put you through already, and think about this – Do you want to constantly have to feel like you need to look over your own shoulder? Do you want to feel second place to “stupid, sporadic texts that don't even stimulate her?”
If they don't stimulate her, then why does she bother? Why does she maintain contact with this man? These are crappy lies that she expects you to swallow because thus far you've played along with her game.
I am presenting these questions to you as a person who stayed with their spouse after emotional and sexting affairs. Who stayed largely because I had no one else to fall back on either. It is not easy, and I continue to ask myself these questions to determine if the WORK we put into repairing our relationship is just sunk cost fallacy or what I really want. And I can tell you for damn sure if I found out he was still messaging that woman it'd be over without a second thought.
Neither option – staying with her and continuing to pretend she didn't cheat or leaving and starting over – is easy. But is the real reason you can't imagine a life without her because that's the only life you've let yourself imagine? Or are there facets of your life you've already begun to develop because you can't bear to have them with her?
Honestly, do you think he is cheating? Virtually all cheaters put out a version of “I love you, but I’m not in love with you.” Yours said he cares about you but doesn’t love you. Would it be possible to see a marriage counselor? Feeling degraded and unheard is a major love killer.
Can attest. Married into a crazy family and now no boundaries are respected, what matters to me isn’t a priority to the family etc.
Think wisely about what family you’re marrying into, you can’t get rid of them.
Here's the thing- the only piece of truth you can give him which might help is that if he keeps getting rejected, it probably has more to do with him than women. And unfortunately he's probably not ready to hear it. Sometimes people can't look inward until them blaming everyone else has blown up in their face, and even them some keep their denial with them until the end. I do recommend talking to him, because he's either going to hear it and maybe help himself, or he's going to go off on you then block you, which is going to be healthier for you anyway than listening to his constant negativity. If it were me, here is how I would address it.
1) Dude, you're my friend and so I want to help you. Sometimes that means telling you what you need to hear, instead of what you want to hear. I know what I am about to say may make you feel upset or defensive, but I don't know anything else to tell you which is going to have a chance of actually improving your probability of finding someone.
2) I am absolutely like other girls. A lot of other girls. So many. The reason you say that I am not is because you're having trouble reconciling this idea that women as a “species” are XYZ negative traits, when you know at least one woman who is not. Using that label lets you keep me separated in your mind from other women, allowing you to go on without having anecdotal evidence challenge this inner mantra that it's all women s fault.
3) If you move, you will not have any more luck in another city, or the suburbs. Women in Philly aren't a unique breed. Women in general come with a variety of different personalities, ideas, preferences, hobbies, quirks, educational levels, etc. It's not going to magically solve your issue to move.
4) Dating is a numbers game. Everyone goes through a number of live matches that fizzle out either before you meet or after 1-2 dates. You have to work through the no's to get to the yes. If you freak out over each one, you're costing yourself so much energy when it's just a normal part of getting to know new people looking for someone you connect with.
5) You RADIATE disdain for women, and I want to tell you that as a woman, I can pick up on those vibes when guys have them, and it turns a possible match into an immediate no. I would never date anyone who thinks about women or talks about women the way you do, because I would not deal with someone who disrespects my friends and the women in my family that way, and I sure as hell would never have kids with a man who would make any daughter they had feel like these kinds of opinions are valid. Your attitude about women makes you undatable.
6) When you are having the same issues with every woman you meet…maybe it's not them. What are you bringing to the table which makes you feel like they could not possibly have a good reason to not be interested. Do you take care of your appearance and hygiene? Do you have a good job? Education? Do you have varied interests which allow you to engage with other people about them? Are you emotionally secure enough to accept rejection with dignity and respect, and to not start lashing out at or about the people who reject you? Do you talk to women like they're equal human beings you want to get to know, or do they either on-line on a pedestal above you or in a pit of worthlessness after they reject you, with no middle ground? Are you kind not just to women you want to date, but women who you don't want to date or who won't date you, sales staff, servers, etc.? Do you practice a good balance of self-esteem and humility, so that you neither constantly put yourself down forcing them to disagree with you to keep things from being uncomfortable, not come off as condescending or as having a feeling of superiority? Have you managed to escape that high-school era division of people into tribes like “jocks, cheerleaders, popular, nerds, etc.” and realized that doesn't last very long into adulthood?
You can tailor the last part to his specific behaviors, but you get the idea.
Report him and leave