I mean this in a really respectful way, but I do not think you are straight. You either have pity for the man and are dating him out of your own boredom or you are not into men. The guy seems nice and seems to have a good personality, but if you don't want him to kiss you why are you leading him on and dating him? It's wrong.
Of course you can sit her down and tell her what you've found. Yes, you've snooped, however, you did so because you didn't fully trust her and had severe doubts.
There's no point moving forward with this engagement if your relationship is this unstable.
It doesn't matter what you think. Or what I think or what your dad thinks it matters what your mother thinks because she's the one continually having salt rubbed in the wound every time you say things like that to her. She can not heal and close that wound if she has to be constantly reminded of it every day.
Yes, you should be concerned. Trust your institution on this. And there's a good reason that he can't get a woman closer to his age to date him, but instead is trying to date teenagers.
She did not mention about the cheating in her post at all so she made it seem like i was the bad guy for just leaving him out of nowhere and him “forgiving” me and still wanting me back. Basically, how her son has a heart of gold for still loving the crazy, cold, calculating ex gf.
thanks for the reply, if anything i just want to reach out to my (former?) close friend cuz hes my smoking buddy and weve seen the worst parts of each other. but im struggling to find the words do i just hit him with a “ay bro wanna smoke?”
I am going to say this with all the love in the world – your house does not need deep cleaning or even any cleaning every day…..
As a worker, it is ok for floors to go unswept – unmopped- unvaccumed. It will not harm people to be walking on a carpet or tiles that haven’t been touched in a while….. The vacuums, sweeping and mopping can wait for the weekend – and yes,husband and children can give a hand in completing these tasks – its not just on YOU – NO NO NO – everyone lives in the house – they all contribute to the cleanliness of said house!!
Meal preparation is your friend. If you have a job (lets go 5 days a week – can be less obviously ) on a Saturday or Sunday you prep the weeks meals for the week.
I will sit down on a Friday night and make my shopping list for the coming week. I will plan all dinners for M through F. I will pre plan and chop/prepare all that I can for the coming week on the Sunday afternoon. It’s an investment, but when I get home on Monday afternoon and its all there ready to go I’m pleased I did it.
I also use the slow cooker (crockpot) a lot and also focus on quick and easy meals – BBQ meat and salad/ Stirfry with load of veg/ Curry/ Pasta with a quick sauce or Pasta with a meat sauce pre prepared and frozen/Quiche and salad (quiche can be prepared and frozen or kept in the fridge for a day or so before re heating)/ Risotto (pre chop all veg and meat to go in that and to prepare is literally 30 mins)
I honestly could go on forever with quick meals. I love to cook but if its not for you, have a rotating 10 meals that you can “go to” to make life easy for you.
You can do this. I think you just need to focus on what your needs are and where others can help you. Take away pizza is your friend – just not every night ?.
This is valid and helpful. Thank you
I mean this in a really respectful way, but I do not think you are straight. You either have pity for the man and are dating him out of your own boredom or you are not into men. The guy seems nice and seems to have a good personality, but if you don't want him to kiss you why are you leading him on and dating him? It's wrong.
I hate that I cant confront her about it.
Of course you can sit her down and tell her what you've found. Yes, you've snooped, however, you did so because you didn't fully trust her and had severe doubts.
There's no point moving forward with this engagement if your relationship is this unstable.
It doesn't matter what you think. Or what I think or what your dad thinks it matters what your mother thinks because she's the one continually having salt rubbed in the wound every time you say things like that to her. She can not heal and close that wound if she has to be constantly reminded of it every day.
I would think long and very hot about it before getting the DNA test.
Yes, you should be concerned. Trust your institution on this. And there's a good reason that he can't get a woman closer to his age to date him, but instead is trying to date teenagers.
She did not mention about the cheating in her post at all so she made it seem like i was the bad guy for just leaving him out of nowhere and him “forgiving” me and still wanting me back. Basically, how her son has a heart of gold for still loving the crazy, cold, calculating ex gf.
thanks for the reply, if anything i just want to reach out to my (former?) close friend cuz hes my smoking buddy and weve seen the worst parts of each other. but im struggling to find the words do i just hit him with a “ay bro wanna smoke?”
Several hours max
I am going to say this with all the love in the world – your house does not need deep cleaning or even any cleaning every day…..
As a worker, it is ok for floors to go unswept – unmopped- unvaccumed. It will not harm people to be walking on a carpet or tiles that haven’t been touched in a while….. The vacuums, sweeping and mopping can wait for the weekend – and yes,husband and children can give a hand in completing these tasks – its not just on YOU – NO NO NO – everyone lives in the house – they all contribute to the cleanliness of said house!!
Meal preparation is your friend. If you have a job (lets go 5 days a week – can be less obviously ) on a Saturday or Sunday you prep the weeks meals for the week.
I will sit down on a Friday night and make my shopping list for the coming week. I will plan all dinners for M through F. I will pre plan and chop/prepare all that I can for the coming week on the Sunday afternoon. It’s an investment, but when I get home on Monday afternoon and its all there ready to go I’m pleased I did it.
I also use the slow cooker (crockpot) a lot and also focus on quick and easy meals – BBQ meat and salad/ Stirfry with load of veg/ Curry/ Pasta with a quick sauce or Pasta with a meat sauce pre prepared and frozen/Quiche and salad (quiche can be prepared and frozen or kept in the fridge for a day or so before re heating)/ Risotto (pre chop all veg and meat to go in that and to prepare is literally 30 mins)
I honestly could go on forever with quick meals. I love to cook but if its not for you, have a rotating 10 meals that you can “go to” to make life easy for you.
You can do this. I think you just need to focus on what your needs are and where others can help you. Take away pizza is your friend – just not every night ?.