He doesn’t want you because you aren’t a man. OP you’ve been patient way too long and now you’re just wasting your time while your husband lies to you over and over. He knows exactly why he won’t have sex with you. You’re just there for show, a cover-up.
Tell her you are not forcing her to never meet him again. It's just you can't stay with her if she does. All decisions have consequences. If she wants to move forward with you, she needs to leave him behind. If she wants to hold on to him, she needs to let you go.
he is average looking and there are better-looking guys who work at the same place.
What is wrong with you? This is your boyfriend? Why are you with him? Maybe whatever it is you see in him is obvious to other women too… maybe he is a charismatic person who charms, do you really want to snuff out whatever shines inside of him? I would be proud to have a bf respectful enough to communicate when those things happen and flattered af people found my man so attractive…
I spend the majority of my time with my husband, especially in the last year. We've been working naked to connect again. He probably does feel like there's distance between us, I do too, because we often just don't understand each other. This argument is just one example of that.
I know that my husband should be the one I confide in. I used to be afraid of his opinion, though, because he can be very forceful and opinionated (he admits as much). I'm also not very good with talking about my feelings, because I fear rejection. I'm working on it though.
Betrayed? Really?
You weren't even alive.
It's a little bit of a stretch.
Why did you make this post twice in the sub, but alter the stories? Are you A/B testing or something?
This kinda sounds like lsd to me
Please update us OP. I’m so worried about you and your boy.
Better to throw 5 years down the drain than over a decade and kids and a mortgage.
He doesn’t want you because you aren’t a man. OP you’ve been patient way too long and now you’re just wasting your time while your husband lies to you over and over. He knows exactly why he won’t have sex with you. You’re just there for show, a cover-up.
Tell her you are not forcing her to never meet him again. It's just you can't stay with her if she does. All decisions have consequences. If she wants to move forward with you, she needs to leave him behind. If she wants to hold on to him, she needs to let you go.
he is average looking and there are better-looking guys who work at the same place.
What is wrong with you? This is your boyfriend? Why are you with him? Maybe whatever it is you see in him is obvious to other women too… maybe he is a charismatic person who charms, do you really want to snuff out whatever shines inside of him? I would be proud to have a bf respectful enough to communicate when those things happen and flattered af people found my man so attractive…
I spend the majority of my time with my husband, especially in the last year. We've been working naked to connect again. He probably does feel like there's distance between us, I do too, because we often just don't understand each other. This argument is just one example of that.
I know that my husband should be the one I confide in. I used to be afraid of his opinion, though, because he can be very forceful and opinionated (he admits as much). I'm also not very good with talking about my feelings, because I fear rejection. I'm working on it though.