It's not liking continuing a relationship that you don't enjoy is going to make the situation any better. He clearly wants marriage, you don't. There's no future for the relationship.
At least if you break up, he'll have the time to find someone who's more compatible and you can continue to on-line your life how you want.
I found literally hundreds of pictures and videos of me saved to my boyfriend’s laptop spanning back several years but we’ve only been dating 3 weeks
It astounds me you don't know what to do after posting your own TL;DR.
If this woman is “the love of your life” and her only demand in this situation was that you not jerk off when she is home…you are being unreasonable in your response to her and she has every right to be upset. Not only did she walk in on your jerking off to TWO random women live!, but then you smack her with the “I’m a grown man, I can jerk off whenever and to whomever I like” comment and damn, you’re lucky she’s still dating you.
If someone told me that they’re sorry they got caught and have no intention of addressing WHY I am upset about the situation, I’d be out of there so fast. You’re pretty much picking jerking off to porn over your future wife and expecting her to be okay with this. That’s an asshole move on your part. Also, apologizing for getting caught is not apologizing for doing the thing that made her upset in the first place.
Soulmates aren’t real. That’s just in the movies. Expecting your partner to be perfect for you, a one in a million match is just unrealistic. Recalibrate your expectations. Maybe she’s right for you, maybe not, but stop looking for a “soulmate”. Bottom line is, if you can do better than her, then you should. If she’s the best you can do, make sure she doesn’t leave you
gross
Not really. I once had to stay with an Uncle with a pit, I had a minpin. I knew full well if they met it would be death.
Both dogs unintelligently tried to get at each other. It was an exercise in constant vigilance.
One wrong person opening a door would have been the end of my dog.
Thankfully it was a short stay.
His pitbull was a big heavy sweetheart that would lay on your chest just to tell you she loved you.
Same time, she probably would have ripped my minpin's head off without even thinking about it. (the pit was a rescue)
Dalmatians are also known to not be great around other pets or children.
I'm honestly shocked the cat survived the encounter. Not only is Jane a bad pet sitter, but she's also incompetent.
This dog has a history of prey drive. I sincerely doubt Jane's made-up story. I also do not blame the dog. I blame the owner.
It's not liking continuing a relationship that you don't enjoy is going to make the situation any better. He clearly wants marriage, you don't. There's no future for the relationship.
At least if you break up, he'll have the time to find someone who's more compatible and you can continue to on-line your life how you want.
Tell her family and let them deal with it. At this point she's just trying to blackmail you.
No. His boundary could be, “my wife doesn't exclude me from her life.”
I found literally hundreds of pictures and videos of me saved to my boyfriend’s laptop spanning back several years but we’ve only been dating 3 weeks
It astounds me you don't know what to do after posting your own TL;DR.
If this woman is “the love of your life” and her only demand in this situation was that you not jerk off when she is home…you are being unreasonable in your response to her and she has every right to be upset. Not only did she walk in on your jerking off to TWO random women live!, but then you smack her with the “I’m a grown man, I can jerk off whenever and to whomever I like” comment and damn, you’re lucky she’s still dating you.
If someone told me that they’re sorry they got caught and have no intention of addressing WHY I am upset about the situation, I’d be out of there so fast. You’re pretty much picking jerking off to porn over your future wife and expecting her to be okay with this. That’s an asshole move on your part. Also, apologizing for getting caught is not apologizing for doing the thing that made her upset in the first place.
Soulmates aren’t real. That’s just in the movies. Expecting your partner to be perfect for you, a one in a million match is just unrealistic. Recalibrate your expectations. Maybe she’s right for you, maybe not, but stop looking for a “soulmate”. Bottom line is, if you can do better than her, then you should. If she’s the best you can do, make sure she doesn’t leave you